What would make you break up?

@SKLC_PT (1234)
February 21, 2007 4:55am CST
What would make you break up? Can something simple make you break up or would it have to be serious? I think it would have to be something very serious to make me break up. Please share your opinions on what type of things could cause you to break up. I think things like aggressiveness, lack of communication, treason, disrespect, would be some examples that if they had to happen would cause me to break up with my significant other.
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8 responses
• Philippines
21 Feb 07
WHat would make me break up with my boyfriend would be Unfaithfulness to me and a Great Big Lie! I value loyalty to one's partner and honesty. I've been with a Playboy before and it hurt so bad. I felt I was going crazy that's why my requirements for me to be able to stay in a relationship would be Loyalty, Honesty and of course Love.
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@SKLC_PT (1234)
21 Feb 07
Thanks for your response. I'm sorry to hear it's happened to you before, I hope it never happens to you again though, everyone deserves to be happy!
@Sissygrl (10912)
• Canada
21 Feb 07
If my hubby cheated on me then i would have tp leave him. i have more self respect for myself then to stay with someone who lies and cheats on me. That's just something i couldnt forgive. To know that he went to someone else would be something i could not get over.
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@SKLC_PT (1234)
21 Feb 07
I'm not sure myself on this though, I don't know if I'd be able to forgive the 1st time, all I know is he wouldn't get away with it a second time!
@chiquitita (1226)
• Indonesia
21 Feb 07
CHEATING! lol. That word really irritates me. I will never want to continue my relationship with the person who cheats me. BEATING, If that guy want to practice his Karate, then get a good place to go instead of practicing it with me. I think those are my biggest NO NO.
@SKLC_PT (1234)
21 Feb 07
Lol I liked the Karate comment, I think of the both of them beating is more severe and I also think cheating is a severe crime against a relationship.
• Australia
21 Feb 07
i dont think there is anything that could make me break up with my bubby. honestly...nothing
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@SKLC_PT (1234)
21 Feb 07
You sure, you wouldn't break up with him even if he cheated, hit you, or anything else. I don't think I'd be able to do that.
@Edricj (98)
• Nigeria
21 Feb 07
If my partner is not honest or faithful to me then she is not worth spending the rest of my life with. I will sincerely consider a break up.
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@SKLC_PT (1234)
21 Feb 07
Thanks for the reply, that's a good point. It's hard to spend your life with someone that doesn't seem to care about the consequences of their actions!
• Philippines
21 Feb 07
im the type of person who doesnt let go of the person i love that easy. as long as i can save the relationship, i'll hold on, however, i know when to let go coz i do know my limitations and in assurance that i did my part. betrayal, lier, dishonesty any word that is opposite of honesty might be one of the reason of the break up.
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@SKLC_PT (1234)
21 Feb 07
Thanks for your response, I too do my best to keep the relationship alive but would know my limits most of the time, because for a relationship to work both sides have to do their parts!
@simran1430 (1790)
• India
4 Mar 07
Beware of continuing unfinished business with the next person you meet. If you didn't have a chance to truly close the door on your last relationship, don't project your open issues on the next unsuspecting soul. See the new person as a clean slate and allow the relationship to unfold with no connections to your past.
@SKLC_PT (1234)
5 Mar 07
What? It's good advice but not what I asked at all, unless the reason what hidden somewhere!
@ju_lai18 (52)
• Philippines
6 Mar 07
if my boyfriend has an affair with another woman I would definitely break up with him..im not that dumb just to pretend not to know about it..if he really loves me he should not do that to me..
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