Is it right to be pregnant before marriage???

India
October 14, 2006 6:20am CST
Come on people do u think its right???
48 responses
@Azita888 (315)
• United States
19 Oct 06
I think it's ok, as long as both parents are involved, marriage can happen after, I am pregnant now and we are planning to get married after I have the baby.
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@DRoddy77 (1776)
• United States
16 Oct 06
I was 7 months pregnant when I walked down the aisle. I think it is more and more common these days and there's nothing wrong with it unless someone is super religious!
• India
16 Oct 06
thankx for the reply. Cheers
@DRoddy77 (1776)
• United States
16 Oct 06
you are very welcome!
• India
18 Oct 06
ya i agree with u. luk at hollywood celebs like brad and angelina . like tom and katie . man dis is 21st century.
• United States
20 Oct 06
I was pregnant before marriage and im a christian. I had walked away from God at the time and was staying at my boyfriends house. I would come home to wash clothes or get mail but then it was back to his house. I was 20 at the time and became pregnant. We are married now and im 22 but I think it is better to be married first. Children deserve a family to be raised in I think, im blessed that my husband chose to stay with me at the time to raise our daughter then propose to me and marry me.
• India
20 Oct 06
well said.......thankx for sharing your life experience with us.....thankx a lot. Cheers.
• United States
20 Oct 06
Your Welcome. God bless
@sherinek (3323)
• United States
18 Oct 06
It is not our place to judge. I personally think nobody should.
• India
18 Oct 06
well y do you think so???.........dont you think if u marry the same person who is responsiblre for your pregnancy ......its fine??
• India
18 Oct 06
well y do you think so???.........dont you think if u marry the same person who is responsiblre for your pregnancy ......its fine??
@SnIcKasS (1378)
• Israel
22 Oct 06
My Mom was, I can't see why it is wrong? It's ok :)
• India
24 Oct 06
Thankx for the reply.........
• United States
20 Oct 06
You know, I was pregnant before I was married, my son was two months old at my wedding, and though it wasn't morally right, I don't think we should necessarily condone people for it either.
• India
20 Oct 06
Thankx for the reply.......
@dollar669 (569)
• Canada
20 Oct 06
right, oh my goodness, im so sick of every one trying to live up to what they think there "suppost to be" do what makes you happy if baby falls before a peice of paper so be it, life happends as it happends, dont stress what hsould be, make a new life an interesting life
• India
20 Oct 06
Thankx for the reply......Cheers
@pormadi (1300)
• Indonesia
20 Oct 06
I think it is not right. It make that we can be in a peace mind.
@pormadi (1300)
• Indonesia
20 Oct 06
I mean I think it is not right. It make that we could not be in a peace mind.
• United States
18 Oct 06
I was pregnant before I got married, I don't see a problem with it at all.
• India
18 Oct 06
Thankx for the reply
@KrauseHome (36746)
• United States
18 Oct 06
Honestly, my opinion is... You need to make sure this is the person you are going to Marry and spend your life with for the rest of your life, as every child needs a Mother and a Father, and it would be best if they grow up with both of these 2 in their lives. Also with all of the Diseases out there, even if you use Birth Control you cannot always protect yourself from many of the STDS and Aids out there. But if you are sure you are able to both be ready for Marriage or a committment to this child, then and only then should it be acceptable. If you are not ready to have a Child Age wise, $$ wise, or just over all ready to be a Parent, wait until you are ready, and save yourself a lot of headaches and heartache later.
• India
18 Oct 06
well said krause!!!!!! thankx for the reply
• United States
18 Oct 06
It would be better if pregnancy was postponed until a person is married. But, everyone makes mistakes. I was 3 months pregnant when I got married. I wish I had waited until we were already married and financially more secure.
• India
18 Oct 06
thankx for the reply......
• United States
18 Oct 06
I dont think it right or wrong. It depend on couple. I had my daughter before I married to her daddy. I wasnt worried about wedding or be marriage before she was born. As long as couple knows they are going to stay for good, get married, marriage dont have to come before other events.
• India
18 Oct 06
thankx for the reply. Cheers
@lafavorito (2964)
• Philippines
19 Dec 06
This scenario is very common nowadays and I don't see anything wrong with it. Pushing yourself to get married even if you don't want to because of the baby and giving up the baby to abortion is the wrong thing to do.
@Ravenladyj (22936)
• United States
18 Dec 06
Absolutely...of course its not the right choice for everyone but I personally see nothing wrong with it..I had all 3 of my kids out of wedlock and never married the father of my oldest two at all..we never had any intention of getting married actually..
@deadzone (602)
• India
18 Dec 06
i think its not right .you have to get married and then have a child.
@kutchi (12330)
• Pakistan
24 Oct 06
No I Think Its wrong
@redlynn (322)
• China
24 Oct 06
I don't think it's a good idea.Because it can bring a lot of problem,some girls have to abort.And It's harmful to their body.
@missybal (4492)
• United States
22 Oct 06
Well I guess the real question is is he marrying for the childs sake. My mom got pregnant with me then made my dad wait until I was 1 year old before agreeing to marry him because she wanted to make sure he loved her and it wasn't a got to do it because I got her pregnant thing. Not right but it happens, I think there are plenty of ways to avoid it that there is no excuse.
• United States
22 Oct 06
I don't think there is anything wrong with it, UNLESS you we're just out whoring around without protection. If it's with someone you plan on staying with, you love, or a common mishap with someone your with so be it. But how about these women on Maury who are testing 20 different guys who could possibly be there childs father because they slept with them around that time. Sheesh, thats a little bit far out of reach.
• United States
22 Oct 06
Yes. I dont think you have to be married to have a child. Especially if you plan on marrying that person