do men need to have muscles?

February 21, 2007 10:05am CST
my brother is a really skinny person and hasnt ever had a girlfriend. is it because hes too skinny that no girls take an interest to him?
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6 responses
@arc_78 (23)
• Malaysia
21 Feb 07
My friend is also skinny but that did not stop him from getting a girlfriend.. It may be a factor but most women out there are going for the guy who are confidence in themselves.. Sometimes he have to make the first move and don't make rejections as an excuse..it's part of the learning process of growing up. ~ Dare to fail ~
@barnzy (7)
21 Feb 07
He is 16, (i am a friend of this boy and perry) he stays in alot many people like him but he feels they dont, but pel ur outers lol what did he ever do to u. to make you embarres him so much. He will kill you if he found this... But he aint gonna find ou lol. Really it is mainly because he dont really talk to people, keeps him self to him self, not very confident he has alot of humour in him and there is no reason why no one shud take an interest to him ????
• India
21 Feb 07
For attracting girls muscle is not an important factor.
@priti45 (372)
• India
21 Feb 07
Hi perry. welcom to mylot. Well I dont know about others but I really dont like muscular guys. I am also skinny so I like tall and skinny guys a lot. I dont think thats the reason because of which your brother has not had a girlfriend. I am sure there must be a lot of girls like me who like skinny guys.
@aiguy01 (588)
• United States
21 Feb 07
It's usually a personality thing. Talk to some of the girls he knows to ask them what it is about him that they think he needs to improve or change to attract more women.
• United States
21 Feb 07
you dont say how old your brother is but im sure there is someone out there for him somewhere he has just not met her yet I do think personality is more important than muscles so maybee he may need to work on that some?