holding you tight!...

those people answers below to your discussions is right. you cant manifest the person. in loving you must give and take. "IF YOU REALLY LOVE ME PLEASE LET ME GO" often says of those person wants to be free and let go from someone else. dont hold them just give their freedom if thats what they want.

if you really love someone..than let it free..if they she really love you she will come back to you else never..you cant hold one tight to just saty with you...it is just impossible htis action will break your realtioship..everyone wants..some independent in life..respect them...love them they will always with you...all the best

What is long lasting is mutual desires. One cannot force one to stay with, just because one is holding tight. It may be suffocating for the other person. Therefore it is better to understand people and not force actions on them.

Don't hold her too tight, you'd be controlling her, giving her no space to breathe and that will only drift the both of you apart and you don't want that to happen do you? We all need some freedom,some space to breathe if we don't get it, we will find a way till we do and that could have a negative impact on your relationship