I just need some opinion.

This is MY opinion. And not meant to upset anyone... I think that it's best maybe for you to leave. If he doesn't care, what's the sense in being there in a loveless marriage, where you and your child aren't getting anything out of it but hurt? You can't go through life feeling pain, unloved, and uncared for.. you need to find your way, and it sounds like maybe your way is without him. There's lots of options. Do what you think is best hun. If your thinking about leaving, then go, because you shouldn't ever feel like you should leave. There's been times when i have felt unattractive, and even neglected by my husband, but the thing is, I've never wanted to leave. He treats me well, and when he's not working himself overboard, or really tired, I'm all good again, and well, then there's pms, the leading cause for my feeling unattractive... so i know it's not him. But this one is your husband, he's doing this to you, not for you, he seems to give you no love or attention, no affection, and i think you need to go on your own and find your own happiness, as well as showing your child the love and happiness that it deserves. Take care of yourself... There's options.

Don't ruin your mariage so quickly. It's easy to break up, it's hard to build. I'm sure that deep inside you, you love your husband, and you want him to stat. You just don't like his new hobbie. Talk to him about it, and you can also go to someone that can help you with your mariage. Don't give up on him. I'm sure that if he loves you, then he will change for you.

Maybe you need counselling. If you're Catholic (I see you're from the Philippines), maybe the priest can help you. You need another person to intercede, one who is not biased. If you go to your family or friends, they will side with you. Same thing with his family or friends. You need a 3rd party to put some objectivity when you talk to each other, since you guys seem to have some communication problems already. I know your suspicions are driving you crazy. At the same time, maybe he sees you as a nagging wife. Without someone to intercede, you would quarrel again and again. I'm all for trying your best to save your marriage. You do not have proof that he is unfaithful, just your suspicions. You do not say that there he has any fault except for his penchant for staying out very late. It takes two to tango. I'm not saying any one of you is at fault. But there are 2 of you in this marriage, and if there are problems, there must have been a contribution from both parties. Good luck to both of you!

Your husband seems to be very immature and not ready for married life. Maybe you can try marriage counseling or something. If you're part of a church group you can ask someone he trusts to talk to him about it. You can also ask his friends or his family to talk to him. Before making a decision, pray for guidance and help. If all else fails, I don't see how you can live in one roof. He's very irresponsible, your kid may be better off without him.

have you tried to talk it out with him? i mean really talk. if he's not bothered by his own behaviour and he seems to be doing it on purpose as what you've observed, then ask him if he wanted the relationship to end. i think he really wanted out of the relationship and he just doesnt want to make the first move...marriage is sacred but it's not marriage at all if there is no love.