why is he still friends with his EX?
By jelaichie
@jelaichie (475)
Philippines
February 22, 2007 5:53am CST
some of us are just incapable of moving on. kidding. men get sentimental too., you know. but that's just about it most of the time: nostalgia. sure, we get all fuzzy when we remember the good times., but soon after., the issues that made us call it quits come up & we realized why we got off that particualr love bus in the first place. if it really bothers you that he's still intouch with his Ex., then by all means., calmly assert yourself. be honest and take it through. if your boyfriend includes you in the relationship with his ex and displays affection toward you infront of her, you have nothing to worry about...
thats just it., an advice from my friend...
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3 responses
@kathy77 (7485)
• Australia
22 Feb 07
Yes well a lot of relationships, when they break up the people that had their affair still remain friends, there is nothing wrong with staying friends with your ex as long as you do stay just friends especially when you are in a good relationship with your new boyfriend/girlfriend it is best to stay on good grounds with them and not bad terms.
@whiteheather39 (24403)
• United States
22 Feb 07
Good advice. I would not mind having contact with my last ex but his wife gives him such a hard time about it that I felt sorry for him so didn't encourage him anymore.
@michelledarcy (5220)
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22 Feb 07
I am still friends with my ex. We have kids together so it really is a necessity for us. However if we didn't I think I wouldn't have kept in touch with him at all. I don't see there is any need to do this once therelationship is over.
