What are you called when you lose a child?

@Nireths (149)
United States
February 22, 2007 9:40am CST
When you lose your parents you are called an orphan, when you lose your spouse you are called a widow. But what are you called when you lose a child? Is there even a word for it? Or was it just not meant to happen and a name for it was never created. Fortunately, it hasn't happened to me. But I was wondering about this for some time now.
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@lraplove (30)
• China
23 Feb 07
i thought even if lose the child ,but,still was the child's mother.
• Indonesia
23 Feb 07
I think it's very painfull... If I were a mother who lose my child I don't know what would I do.. Actually, I don't know what can we call this problem. sometimes, if I heard about mother who lose his son or doughter, I think how's the feeling of woman who did abortion...
@owlwings (43915)
• Cambridge, England
22 Feb 07
I think that, in the past, losing a child was so commonplace that there is no word for it in English (I don't know about other languages). Relationship words are quite fascinating in different languages. For example in some cultures there are very exact relationship words which define a brother of your mother differently from a brother of your father and the spouse of your mother or father's sister differently as well. In English we would use the term 'uncle' for all of them. The same languages, though, might use the same word indiscriminately for relationships such as cousin second cousin or sibling where we make a distinction.
@smacksman (6053)
22 Feb 07
Unlucky? No, seriously, I don't think there is a collective word for it since in the old days there was hardly a family who had not lost a child. It was normal. Thank goodness for modern science and medecine!
• United States
22 Feb 07
It is a sad thing to lose any member of your family. To loose a child is really hard. I really don't think there is a name for it. No one really wants to be reminded that they have lost a child.
• United States
22 Feb 07
My best friend (close enough to be my sister) just lost her baby on the 7th of this month and I still think of her as a mama, even though it was her first child.