Would u evny ur parterner..

@yueliu (1623)
China
February 23, 2007 1:53am CST
If she/he is better than u? for me I would not evny him.I think it is good for me.We can make progress together.what do u think,friends?
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13 responses
@yanjiaren (9050)
23 Feb 07
i agree with you..his strengths cover my weaknesses and vice versa..we both have qualities that can enhance each other..and i would love tosee my king on topof the mountain one day..his success becomes my success.as i am a part of him..i benefit form his goodness..so to envy himn would mean i am far from him..
@joodzki6 (596)
• Philippines
23 Feb 07
no..why should i get envy of him? the fact that we are partners, i should be proud of him. his achievements, is my achievements too...his success is my success as well..so, there should be no room for envy.
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23 Feb 07
I don't think envying your partner is a very healthy way to be. You should be working together to acheieve things and if they do well you should be able to take some credit for it as well as you are their companion and guide.
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• China
23 Feb 07
I think you are right. If you love your parterner, you will wish her(him) is better than you
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@yueliu (1623)
• China
25 Feb 07
yes~~gonggong~~u are now rating to 8!!!
@Akeela (2079)
• Trinidad And Tobago
23 Feb 07
no thats good progress is good , throwing it in my face is another thing, I feel to punch him....
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@shywolf (4520)
• United States
23 Feb 07
I hope that I would not envy my partner. I would hope that I would be happy for them. After all, for that person to be my partner I should love them with all of my heart, and want for them to succeed and not fail. Just because they might happen to be better than me at some particular thing in life, doesn't mean that I should feel insecure or incompetant. We all have strengths and weaknesses, and we can't all be the best at everything. So no, I would try not to envy my partner, depending on what it was that they did better than me, and I hope that I truly would not ever envy them anything. I would hope that I would love them too much to envy them about anything.
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• United States
23 Feb 07
Being envious is not a good emotion to have, this causes trouble.
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@lols189 (4797)
23 Feb 07
me too, i would never envy my partner as we could also make progress together
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• India
23 Feb 07
no ,not at all why wud i envy if my partner is more efficient and knowledgeable or in any field better than me...moreover i shud b happy and proud that i've got such a nice partner and both of us can make double the profit by working together ,helping each other.
@20031969 (934)
• India
23 Feb 07
jealousy should not come between you and your partner's growth because your partner is your best friend (my opinion). it hampers both peaceful life. suppose my partner grows i should be proud of her (vise versa). then we can lead a happy married life.
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@allwin (297)
• India
6 Mar 07
i'd love if my gal is better than me.. she'll be more respobsible than me and i'd be really proud of her... n i'll try improvin myself to make our lives better...
@Starline (681)
• United States
28 Feb 07
I would never envy my partner.. I would be happy for him!! But I do envy friends sometimes..
@colega17 (312)
• Romania
24 Feb 07
When somebody is better than us , we tend to envy that person but when it comes to the person we love we just can't do that . Why ? It's easy ! Your love one it's part of you so you can't be envyous on . . . yourself.You are rather proud of him/her and what he/she accomplished . As you said you can both progress together . . .