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Did I do wrong.My cousin I haven't seen since we was 13 and her two little girls came to stay last laborday weekend.And it was horrible.She cussed soooo bad ,all the time.And yelled at her girls most of the time for stupid stuff.I have rules in my home and she knew them,due to phone conversations of the past, one is no eating or drinking in the livingroom.And no pets in the house.So before she came she agreed not to bring her female dog(a lab) and I was fine, then here,she and her kids eat in my livingroom and cussed and she mouthed at my kids,her kids would tear something up she never got after them for it, she 2 year old tried to climb my NEW entertainment center,and broke the knob off the door,I scolded for climbing ,saying that was a no no, we don't climb here ok.She got mad and said She's only a baby.I told her it was new ,and that my husband would get mad if it got tore up this fast and she said"he'll get over it". And then her brothers stopped by to see her and the girls and brought the dog ,and left it here with out telling me what they was doing,and she put in my house! I shoved the big lug out and told her to find someone to keep it while they was here, and I had to drive her way across the county to another family members house to drop it off.While she was here,it was alittle cold outside,too chilly for shorts and tiny tee shirts, and thats all she brought the girls to wear,and thier shoes didn't fit.So I took them to Wal-marts and spent 3oo.oo dollars on them .All new cloths and shoes. I took them to a festival in town and bought them many things, andnot my kids anything.(I couldn't afford to.) I bought them stuff to eat while out and about, I drove her around to family to visit.And my son took a second bag of candy she bought and she said,Now you have ot buy me back another box.Then her girls was every wheres in the house even in the bathroom.My kids got the blame of playing in her underarm gunk with her toothbrush.My kids are too old to do that, the know better to even disrespect someone like that as well. She said I had to buy her new stuff.I didn't .She complained my food was too salty,too peppery,or sweet,so on so forth.Also I have a son age 12, well he said mom thats gross, I asked what is, he said She's not wearing a bra and I see her breast! I looked and there she was in a muscle shirt worn out to see right through.My husband shook his head and left and said I will only be home at bedtime.When she left I found two holes knocked in my walls! I was just glad to have her gone.So then a month later she moves to Kentucky.And she tries to visit but I wouldn't answer the door,I didn't want her to get mad at me with her kids with her and her drive like a crazy person and hurt them,anyways I wrote her a letter ,in detail of what and why I didn't want her back to my house, she wrot eback calling me a liar.Now her family has kicked her and her girls out and Is living in a womens shelter,and wont work and is about to have the girls taken from her.Did I do wrong.I feel like I did.