Are you often pleased with the responses you get from 'yourlot' lots?

@rekhum (2420)
India
February 23, 2007 6:54pm CST
How do you like other users to respond to you? I'd seen folks responding curtly to other users who share their views on their(folks') own topics a la "ok","Ok Thnx","thnx","lol","really",and so on which at times is quite annoying.I wonder if they just plainly focuss on $ and not the discussions.
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@maryannemax (12154)
• Sweden
24 Feb 07
i had been receiving and seeing such comments and responses, too. and such responses and comments are annoying. for sure, it's obviously just trying to increase their number of points/posts. but according to mylot guidelines, it won't count. hmm. let me quote some guidlines: "Post "Me Too!" messages; add something of substance to the conversation. Thank everyone that responds or comments on your discussion. This will not increase your earnings. Start meaningless discussions or give meaningless responses to try and boost your rating. Discussions like “What’s your age” will be deleted as well as short responses like “ok” or “no”. " source link: http://www.mylot.com/o/guidelines.aspx so, in short, such comments and responses won't get anything actually. it's just a waste of time for people doing that..plus, it's irritating! but thank you's are sweet. but won't get paid. maybe unless when added with something after thank you. more substance and more content than just saying a word or two might get paid. not sure though. just thought about it.
@maryannemax (12154)
• Sweden
24 Feb 07
yep. actually, compared to other forums i've visited, mylot or "ourlot" rather has the neatest most organized layout. easy to go over everywhere and connect to friends. not too much color, so really nice to the eyes. and i am glad i am able to help and give the link. it's nice to share what we know to everyone. oh, i have been around here for 6 months and i admit, i still forget the rules sometimes. so, i try to refresh my mind with the rules and go back and read the guidelines and facts when i have the time. take care! have a nice day.
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@rekhum (2420)
• India
24 Feb 07
You seem to have been here for long.We value your advices and the informative link. Our idea of registering with 'ourlot' should be to make it a neat place for all of us lots by posting interactive and interesting topics to while away some of our time. Thanks much.
@rekhum (2420)
• India
24 Feb 07
They call them as 'Doyens',one who is knowledgeable or uniquely skilled as a result of long experience in some field of endeavor. And to me you seem to be a doyen,neat and skilled.If we have all the doyens here at mylot it would be one perfect place to be in. You have a wonderful day.
@Commerce (646)
• India
24 Feb 07
Oh yea.. I am very pleased some people respond to my topic/ or comment. But sometimes, very short comment, like "good" bad, oki, yes, no, irritate me:P
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@Commerce (646)
• India
27 Feb 07
thanks.. I do visit sometimes.. but not regular.. but no worries i always rate you +ve:P ehehe
@rekhum (2420)
• India
27 Feb 07
It really is annoying.You seem to be too busy these days to start your topic.Will keep responding on yours.take care
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• United States
10 Mar 07
For the most part, everyone has been very nice to me. But, we are dealing with so many ages and cultures, that there can be confusion at times with everyone I am sure. Some only focus on the dollars, other's friendship.
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@rekhum (2420)
• India
12 Mar 07
Yeay,Margie.But we are here for posting stuffs and getting to each other in the process.Aren't we? (+)rating for every one who replied to my post.One(+)for you too.Cheers.
@sunita64 (6468)
• India
24 Feb 07
Yes I have always got very good responses so I am satisfied , Regarding some responses which are not so good I feel that every person has a right to think differently so it is okay if they have responded.
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@rekhum (2420)
• India
24 Feb 07
You are a nice person. Keep it up.
• United States
24 Feb 07
Personaly I would like a meaningful responce or none at all. if it's just a thanks then it's not really needed. I try in discussions I have started to at least comment on what they have said, my rule is if I can't use more then 2 words, don't respond.
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@maryannemax (12154)
• Sweden
24 Feb 07
yep. atleast it's better to try to share responses with thoughts in it. if one can't, better not say anything at all because it won't certainly help the discussion. it's nice to comment, too. but if there's nothing to comment about, better leave it,right?
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@rekhum (2420)
• India
24 Feb 07
I'd just seen a response with a curt "whatever".But the author was smart and witty that he/she shot him with,"Did your P.C Crush?". I agree with both of you and that i would never respond if i don't have an idea about the topic.
@jeanpri (269)
• Malaysia
24 Feb 07
I have only a few responses to the discussions I have posted. Maybe, it is because my discussions are not popular or boring. I wonder how I can get to bring in more popular posts that people would want to read and respond.
@rekhum (2420)
• India
24 Feb 07
Its not about how good is your topic but your feedbacks/response to any topics of other users does matters here.But you are doing pretty well.Just collect more ideas while you keep posting and you will be well versed with the kind of topics that may be catchy and folks will start pouring into your posts. Good luck.