What would you do if you caught your lover cheating on you?

Australia
February 23, 2007 8:36pm CST
My friend sent an email with a pic of what one woman did to embarras and get back at her cheating lover. I though this was funny. What have you done or would you do to get back at a cheater.
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• United States
24 Feb 07
Well, one thing I did do happened when I was engaged to a man before my now husband. My friend told me that he was cheating and had even video taped him with 3 different women who I knew. Well, first thing I did was tell my friend to keep video taping for a few more days. Then I made sure that all the girls were at my engagement party. Then the day of the engagement party, everyone was giving us toasts and my fiance even made a toast stating how much he loved me and swore to always be faithful. I stood up to give my toast and told everyone that I didn't have the words so I wanted to express my words through a music video. we rolled the footage my friend got along with a certain "B" song by Meredith Brooks. Everyone was absolutely shocked and he was on his knees begging and making excuses. I didn't even give him back his ring. I walked out with my now husband Jason (maker of the video) and used the money from that ring to pay for a trip to RENO.
• Australia
24 Feb 07
Awesome , that great, sorry that you had to go through that though, but paybacks are such a b***ch.
• United States
27 Feb 07
Eh don't be sorry. I was still questioning as to whether this was right or not. I am glad it happened. then I never would have met my husband and bonded the way we did. It was great to hace my ex begging up until the day of the wedding . He actually tried to show up to my wedding and I had to have someone "escort" him away. It made a good story and a good laugh.
@SageMother (2277)
• United States
24 Feb 07
I assume the term "lover" is meant to convey a relationship that hasn't the agreements associated with the term "spouse". A lover is a free agent. In that instance there is no cheating because there is no agreement , and I mean discussed and agreed to..not assumed, for monogamy on the lover's part. There is no "cheating" lover because the term doesn't indicate a necessity for monogamy. YOu either stop seeing the lover or you accept things as they are anc continue as if nothing has happened.
• Australia
24 Feb 07
No, lover, husband, wife whoever takes your fancy
• India
24 Feb 07
if my love cheating on me then i ll let her go and find another one,if she doesnt love u then leave her
• India
24 Feb 07
If my lover is cheating me then either he/she loves someone else or is fooling me or is not satisfied with me.Then , what's the need of her in my life?I shall prefer to leave her and allow her to go on her own way .
• Philippines
24 Feb 07
slap him hard and leave him for good