is daddy " out of business" with their kids?

Growing up, I loved my mother more because she and I had a bond and did things together while my dad in his free time went outside and played with motorcycles. My husband brings home the bacon, but you bet my son gets excited when he comes home and I am ignored lol. So I think it depends on what the parent does with their children, not how much time that they spend with them.

I would disagree with that. My wife is a stay at home mom with our son right now, but that doesn't mean that i can't foster a relationship with my son. I'd say he loves me equally as much as he loves her, because i do take the time to play with him, and help teach him. Any boy that doesn't love his daddy as much as mommy, isn't getting the attention he needs, and daddy needs to make that time.