Eating out.

@fabwisp (1327)
February 24, 2007 1:54am CST
As some of you know I'm fast approaching my 30th birthday and have promised my two boys that they can take me out for a meal (guess who has to give them the money though?! lol). The trouble is I have no idea were to go. It seems that most places are like conveyor belts these days unless you want to go somewere very expensive. They sit you down, feed you your food, then out you go please we need the table! This really annoys me as if I had wanted fast food treatment I would go to McDonalds! If I am going for a meal I like to be able to take my time and relax not feel like they can't wait for me to leave! Does anyone else have this kind of experience? Do you think we have lost the tradition of a good meal? Sitting down with people we care about and enjoying good food and good company? What happened to the days of making an evening out of a nice meal out?
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@bindishah (2062)
• India
24 Feb 07
There are still lots of places you can get a decent meal without any hurry on the part of the staff. I love olive garden where you can get a meal at an affordable rate and no one is in a hurry to kick you out. So if you are in the mood for Italian you can try that place out. Another one is Don Pablo's for mexican if you like loud places.
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@fabwisp (1327)
24 Feb 07
I don't think we have either of those two here. And i also need to be careful were we go as my kids are quite bland with their tastes in food!
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@Perry2007 (2229)
• Philippines
24 Feb 07
That's the way it is today, sometimes even fine dine restourants have waiting area already. The beach or a resort is your best alternative, get a cottage so you can enjoy the whole day not just dine. Its your birthday right, why not take a day off.
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@coolcatzz (1587)
• Canada
24 Feb 07
We have a pretty good selection of restaurants here in Canada. Not sure which ones are chains and go into the States. My 9 year old loves East Side Marios which is what replaced Olive Garden in Canada. We also like Kelseys which is more pub food type of thing. Those are our favorites. Now I know you guys have Applebees and stuff like that. Are they suitable? By the way Happy Birthday. Mine is next week but we can just skip over that one.
@fabwisp (1327)
25 Feb 07
Happy birthday for next week!
@Lavera1 (896)
• United States
25 Feb 07
Fab, i get that treatment a lot. not only at fast food restaurants but even at the so called better ones. I love good conversation at my meals even if it's with someone that I don't necessarily like. Just so we can laugh and talk. Makes you not want to give the waiters tips because of the way you're treated. But they're only following orders. But I hope that you find an enjoyable restaurant to celebrate your 30th birthday.
@paidreader (5143)
• United States
25 Feb 07
Happy Birthday! I know what you mean about the shoo 'em out the door treatment. When I was younger, my dad would take us to the all you could eat catfish parlors. He always had a big appetite, so in his case, he liked the conveyor belt continuously bringing more fried fish. :)Dinner out used to always take a few hours since he liked to talk as much as he ate. He definately got his money's worth. LOL
@fabwisp (1327)
25 Feb 07
Thats how it should be. Eating out used to be an occasion.
@llnola (16)
• United States
25 Feb 07
Yeah, I completetly agree!! I love to linger and wait in between to order my courses....just starting with a salad or appetizer then waiting to see how I feel... My answer would be a small Italian or casual french restaurant. Or someplace brand new no one knows about that just opened. Or what about finding some super small quaint place - that you can call ahead when you make reservations, you can mention you are going to enjoy catching up and ask when their next reservation after you is. If there have any class they won't schedule anyone and make a note in the book. Then there is the ole, never stop drinking, which is pretty good for keeping you there. Except in Los Angeles. they forget to even ask if you want another drink. I also live in New Orleans, and thank goodness no one will speed you up, they encourage you to stay and enjoy the meal! Good luck and do some searching on some restaurant directories online. Might be fun to find a new, hip, gourmet restaurant with comfort food. It would be fun to eat four cheese marcaroni with your boys or have a smores dessert. Happy Birthday!
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@brihanna (381)
• United States
24 Feb 07
Yes, I agree with you. Which is why I rarely go out to eat. Chili's, The Ninety-nine, Applebees, Uno's, Friendly's, they are all pretty awful. I think that they get all the same food from one place, and just add crap to it. Different sauce, or dipping stuff. And I absolutely HATE being served anything in a basket (like some of the resturaunts do) I hate paper napkins with my meal. I hate plastic drinking cups. Your right, because sometimes you have to pay alot of money if you want good food. I would try a resturant that is NOT a chain. Go early, or on a weekday, when the prices (and service) tend to be a little better. Have fun!!