Are you just wishing or really willing to change your life...........????
@totalearnings (1603)
India
February 24, 2007 4:41am CST
Just wishing or praying for a better life is not enough. Right now our life is the result of all that we have done until now. So in order to make our life different or things to change we will have to make changes. But before that we need must be willing and adaptable to change by way of say by leaving our comfort area or by changing our friends or by relocating our career or even may be by changing our eating habits and dress code. Besides all these I think there is a little fear factor also to overcome and only then we can embrace change so as to reach out goals. So are you just wishing to change or willing to change to make your life better by what means?
3 responses
@slickcut (8141)
• United States
24 Feb 07
i am willing to make some changes in order to make my life better...Right now i am living in a place that is not in my future plans,i am here for a reason,but as soon as I get things done here ,we will be moving back to our home town,so actually this place where we are now is not in our plans...We started making changes already..about 8 months ago..and being here was one of the changes we made to help make our life better..My husband has just been diagnosed with diabetes,and we are going o have to make changes in eating habits..We are starting to take eating classes for diabetics..I am willing to do what it takes to make the necessary changes...I do believe in prayer,but if you know what to do ,then you have to put some legs on those prayers and willing to make those changes,so thats what i plan to do..I don't just believe in chance or just hoping i believe you must take action...
@totalearnings (1603)
• India
24 Feb 07
nice that you are having plans to change. and god bless your hubby with the strength to fight back diabetes. now situations sometimes make us deliberately change whether you like or not especially eating habits. now bittergourds are used extensively in india to keep check on diabetes. you can try those and prayer ofcourse. blessed be
@nutcase222 (676)
• India
24 Feb 07
i liked your qn!i would run out of space if i started to pen down my feelings!so i would answer it in short!
if i say i want to change my life then i would be half correct...because im content with what i have(personal life) but on the professional front i want to achieve more!
to be honest the one thing that i would like to change about myself(not life)is the negativity that is prevailing in my thoughts which is the greatest hindrance to my path of success.i would want to change my habit and im working towards it because i know im capable of doing much more!and i would like to achieve it through hard work and dedication and as you stated very correctly one must be willing to do it....!success achieved through hard work fills us with genuine pride and i want to taste that and prove my mettle!
this is what i want to do with my life!apart from that i value relationships a lot...and im content with what family and friends i have!i thank God for this and i have no complaints.
@totalearnings (1603)
• India
24 Feb 07
actually we cant draw a margin for contentment. its only mental satisfaction. even sometimes when we are unable to change despite our efforts and the circumstances are not meeting our requirement, we tend to loose hope and say ..its ok like this, i am happy with what i have. but again the inner consicious doesnt cooperate after fixing the contentment margin. i think nothing is impossible, we only give up trying. and for this hardwork and dedication is must as you correctly said.
@roniroxas (10560)
• Philippines
25 Feb 07
i am married with 4 kids and my life was really misserable. first i just took is as a part of marriage but slowly i realized that it will not change coz my husband is a mamas boy. me and my kids sacrificed for 6 years then after all this years thinking i pack our bags and left my husband. i have my kids with me. well to make a long story short i made a change slowly but i made it. wishing without acting or doing what you are wishing will always remain to be a wish. now my kids are happy. thank also to Gods guidance and my mom and sisters too.
