sorry i can't be perfect

Philippines
February 24, 2007 9:47am CST
do you feel like being controlled by everybody? do you feel like your somebody else? you try hard to make them proud but no body seems to care? are you sick of every one around, with a fake smile and stupid lies? well, i tell you, its hard to be like me! they think im stupid, im senseless, useless! damn! im only human, i commit mistakes! sorry i cant be perfect!
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25 responses
• Morocco
25 Feb 07
no one is perfect
• United States
25 Feb 07
That is very very true!
@junior07 (972)
• India
25 Feb 07
nobody is perfect in this world,everybody is trying for perfection.
• Latvia
25 Feb 07
Yeah. I agree. Nobody ir perfect. Me too
@dopey22girl (3319)
• United States
25 Feb 07
I'm sorry...I don't know exactly what your situation is, but hopefully it will get better. If not, then get some new people in your life. I'm sure you are not stupid, senseless, or useless, and if anyone thinks so then they are not worth your time. I feel the same way sometimes though too, and I know it's a horrible feeling. If it's a job you're talking about, maybe start to look for a better job. You deserve to be happy no matter where you are.
@ntejani17 (742)
• Pakistan
25 Feb 07
In this world there is nobody perfect everyone has any bad habit and if we get it change than there will be another bad habit in us so thatz why nobody is perfect in this world. It is also happened to me my parentz told me everytime to change ur habit dont be just like children but i told them that sorry i cannot change my habit, i cannot be perfect..
• India
25 Feb 07
hi there since we all r humans the most common things that we do in our life is mistakes but As the wise man said one should never loose "hope" This is the most popwerful thing and a kind of fuel that keeps us going.
• United States
25 Feb 07
I agree with you 100%! I stopped trying to please my family a long time ago. They are not perfect tmemselves but expect me to be.I have always felt like I was invisible with them because they never noticed anything positive I did.Nothing i do is good enough for them,they only criticize so i said to heck with it. i only try to please myself now.
@BRIJENDRA (926)
• India
25 Feb 07
Please do not be worry.It is well known fact that nobody is perfect even god.Do not increase your tension unnecessarily. BEST OF LUCK.
• India
25 Feb 07
you know what,..... your post assures me of something -- that --- you --- are ---- a --- "HUMAN!!!" lolzzzzzzzz.... you have all pure characteristics of human... but I couldnt make it out if you are sad over it, or you regret of being a human or what? Who is asking you to be perfect -- you know wat the world is like this -- i have always believed that if one is in your favor, ten are always against you... and if they wouldnt be there na, you definitley will lose the real crux of life... you know what, it is these ten people against you, who make you live because they keep on telling you, whether right or wrong, but your next plans.... o I mised it this time, thats why he said so,,, nevermind I'll do it in the next time for sure -- definitley I will --- and then you do.... so take this too in its own very stride and enjoy life... by the way WELCOME TO MYLOT...
• Philippines
25 Feb 07
There are times indeed when I feel that. I sometimes hate myself for allowing that to happen to me or to let anybody hurt me and tell me am not good enough.
• United States
25 Feb 07
I have this problem too. Its called being a perfectionist. I hate how I act but its how I am. Worse off is being addicted to Approval. I was reading a book by Joyce Meyers called "Approval Addiction" its a christian book but feel free to read it no matter what. Its really a good thing to stop being a people pleaser. Noone is perfect NONE! Those who think they are perfect are the worst of all. At least I admit I am not and most will. Those who cant are in denial and that cant be good at all for them or anyone else.
• Canada
25 Feb 07
Nobody can be perfect. We weren't made to be that way. We have emotions, thoughts and ideas that get in the way and distract us. It's part of being human. Don't let others get you down. What matters is that you know deep down that you're not useless and stupid. Stick up for what you believe and follow your own ideas. Thats what counts most of all.
• United States
25 Feb 07
Im not sure what you are really saying here, but i do understand feeling un-appreciated in life ya know
@pelo26 (1552)
• Philippines
25 Feb 07
chill out bro... just do those things that makes you happy. don't try to please everyone. Be your own master, believe in yourself and be proud of what you do. Cheers!
• India
25 Feb 07
every people in this world are imperfect so no need to worry about it
@kathy77 (7486)
• Australia
25 Feb 07
No I do not feel like I am being controlled by anybody, it must be dreadful feeling like this though. I do try to make other feel proud of what I do and what I have accomplish but the main thing is to be proud of yourself for what you have done with your own life. No one is perfect there are a lot of people that think they are but really deep down they are there own worse enemy for think that they are.
• United States
25 Feb 07
of course you're not perfect, no one is. we all make mistakes no matter how hard we try not to. no matter how perfect we think we can do it. you're not stupid, senseless or useless. everyone has a place in the world. we are all here for a reason.
• United States
25 Feb 07
Well i will set aside the fact that your discussion was poorly typed. It does not necessarily mean you suffer stupidity. Instead, i will tell you this: i don't like being anyone's "prawn," either. i don't like people trying to control me. id on't like people to the most part. People make mistakes. Some are unforgivable. Others are simple and can be worked through. However, everyone makes them. Simple fact of life. You can either accept that and realize that people are going to eff things up now and then, or you can hide your head in the sand and ignore it...and therefore never have contact with anyone.
• Philippines
25 Feb 07
you know, i used to be like you.. but you know what, one day, i told everyone that i've had enough and i want to leave for good (it's my family who is treating me the way you were treated) so i told them all that is in my heart, and you know what, they told me that the reason they were acting like that is because they want me to be stronger, they told me not to think much about it cause they didn't mean it when they say something bad about me,they know that nobody is perfect.. now, they don't act like that towards me anymore.. my advise to you is to be brave and talk to them.. or if you can't be brave enough to handle them, just ignore them completely.. Good luck!
@porgie (268)
• United States
25 Feb 07
nobody's perfect!
• Philippines
25 Feb 07
yes it is!id feel that too......but we cannot pls anybody around us even if we try to be nice to them,we need to gave them a good companionship and see it to them that we liked us we are human and do have the right to lived....isnt it?everybody or anybody have no one the right to say that they are perfect how can we be perfect in the first place?so the only thing we do,do what is right, even is not perfect at least we know that it right for us....and do hope so that people around us tried to understand everything,really hope so.........?