Should you return or not?

I think it depends on how the relationship ended if they cheated or lied burn it, if it wasnt anything like that, then it should be returned

I kept the gifts, burned the pictures.

well, it depends on how much you like something..If you like it ,keep it. If you were only keeping it because of your ex and not wanting to hurt the ex's feelings then get rid of it.Give it to the Goodwill or Salvation Army. And i would not throw out everything or all the pictures maybe give them to the ex or the ex's family.I hope this was helpful.And stranger things has happened but by the time you get rid of everything you'd make up and would have burned it all for nothing..

depends what the gifts are...my ex kept the $500 digital camera and the wedding ring...and actually she kept it all...not that I wanted it back truly, I beleive a gift is a gift and I loved her and wanted her to have those things, but she could have offered so as not to look so materialistic

VooDoo them.. just kidding, Burn them to erase the memory of your past... then have a party!

I have gotten rid of most everything from my exhusband. The only things I have are from our wedding. The only reason I kept this stuff is for our daughters' sake. I figured if they wanted any of the pictures, flowers (silk), cake topper, etc. they could have it. I still have the rings too and have thought about pawning them here recently (it has over 8 years since we split up.) I was going to keep them too, for the girls. I just don't think that they would want or need them though.

I still got the gifts I got from my ex boyfriend. He did spend few hundred dollars for the rings I got so I decided to keep it. I still got the pictures too because it got my friends in it. I dont really care for it so I probably get rid of it if I need more space for something else.

i keep them safe... it brings good memories..

why burn your memories if you dont want them give them back

Return it all, just put it in a box and drop it off.

i keep it, even the pictures of him..

I think if it was given as a gift then it should be treated as a gift, and kept. If there's an engagement ring involved however, then that shuld be given back, as it is given with the promise to marry

depending on how you guys end it. if he cheats on me, i will probably destroy everything to bits, then send it back to him. if we end it in good term, i will return everything to him in a nice way of course :)

give them back... why would you want the reminder of how you wasted your time....

pictures and stuff I keep in a small box, if we had a special long relationship. If it was only a couple months then there aren't stuff to hold on to you know.

I've been divorced over 30 years, and I still have pictures and things from my ex. They don't play a prominent role in my life. In fact, they're packed away. But they are associated with a part of my life.

that depends - burn them ,pawn them ,givem away to friends

I personally have always thrown away/burned old pictures/letters of my ex's. I used to hold onto them when I was younger, but it brought back too many bad memories to look back on them. All of my long-term relationships ended badly, so I got rid of them.

i would return them or burn them

Return them