Is Failure a pillar to Success???

@Jleivang (374)
India
February 24, 2007 11:09am CST
I've failed once and I had a difficult time coping up with life at that moment. I felt miserable and lonely and was so shattered that I thought it was the end for me. I hated myself for failing and not giving my best. I started blaming myself for wrong happenings in my life and in my family's.I completely secluded myself from everyone, or lets say life. It's just recent that I've come out of that unpleasant phase of life. I'm trying to live again but have become vulnerable. Do you think that failures will urge you to do better without affecting your inner strength???
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@Commerce (646)
• India
24 Feb 07
Yes failure is the pillar to success! But continuous failure leads to complete failure which is irrepairable:P. My life is full of failures. hmmm Let me see if this mylot.com will be another failure in my life:P Want to carry home a bag full of money earned from here:P
@Jleivang (374)
• India
25 Feb 07
Good luck...hope your wish gets fulfilled here in mylot.
@Commerce (646)
• India
27 Feb 07
Well for that... you have to see.. how much I have earned:P
• India
4 Apr 07
Failure is a part of life, big or small all face failure... and for some it's a moment when you test yourself. I think it's good to feel bad when you fail...not to feel bad would rather be abnormal. So as long as you don't live in the past failures one must feel bad so that one does not repeat the same 'mistake' in life. I think it has an effect on our inner strength. As long as it makes you work harder it is good. But if it bogs you down rather then it is a bad effect... that way it affects us. There is saying like this...inferiority feeling is good because it makes you work harder, but inferior complex is bad because it shrinks you.
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