Best way to get over someone, any advice?

@kokopelli (4842)
United States
October 14, 2006 5:44pm CST
When you break up with someone, it hurts, that's normal. But there should be a pain-reliever for it. Any advice on how to get over it quick?
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@linkpointe (1003)
• Philippines
20 Oct 06
Let's be honest, it is not easy to get off with someone you knew for so long, you've been with for years...Memories will always be there but, as time passed, slowly, things will resolved its way of forgetting this person. If i were you, i'll make myself busy with other stuff. Go out with friends and meet new acquaintances. Don't let yourself feel alone. Prove to that person that you are better off with him. Chin up. Stay focus. Be the real "YOU". There are much better person/s out there. That person is not really meant for you, and you must be thankful that it end earlier when you can still hold on to yourself. Just feel the day and SMILE! Your life is at your hand. Your heart will find the right person soon, in time...
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@kokopelli (4842)
• United States
20 Oct 06
tnx 4d reply.
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• Philippines
20 Oct 06
you're welcome.
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• United States
15 Oct 06
Time, that's all I know of. Try doing things with friends and stay active.
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@kokopelli (4842)
• United States
16 Oct 06
i agree. tnx 4d reply.
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• United States
15 Oct 06
nope, you just have to go through it. Keep yourselve occupied and pray and ask God to relieve that pain.
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@kokopelli (4842)
• United States
15 Oct 06
thanx 4d reply.
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• United States
26 Oct 06
Lots of sleep, time to cry and grieve the relationship, good friends, and time, time, time.
@kokopelli (4842)
• United States
26 Oct 06
tnx court!
@chikkadee (372)
• Australia
23 Nov 06
Friends are the biggest factor I think. Go out with them, party hard for a little while and just get on with your life. The pain will still be there but it gets less and less when you realise there is life outside them. It also helps me to think of the things I didn't like. There are always things that annoy you about a person and when you break up with them you never EVER think of them :P So if you sit down and have a little "argh! he cut his toenails inside!" session it always makes you feel better (especially if you add "man, and Im so cool, I used to be the best person at his family get togethers!" to boost your own ego :)
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@kokopelli (4842)
• United States
23 Nov 06
LOL! i like that! :)
• Philippines
22 Nov 06
relatinship - geeting over the heartbreaks.
trash all the things that make u to remember him/her. Make your life busy with something else like school, work or another gf/bf hunting. if u remember him/her try to focus on her/his negative attitude in that way u will feel that shes/hes nothing. Be optimistic, reasoning urself that it might be happen coz somebody else's waiting for u, a girl/man much better than him/her.
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@kokopelli (4842)
• United States
22 Nov 06
great response! i like that! :)
@moneymind (10510)
• Philippines
21 Nov 06
yeah ... i know some pill just for that and it does not need prescription, ready here they are... alaksan, ipittrain, i guess those two are enough for it. nyi hi hi hi hi hi sorry cannot give you some thing good for it, i kinda not my field. greetings. : )
@moneymind (10510)
• Philippines
23 Nov 06
as far as alaksan is concern no am not i guess, it always leaves me with hang over....
@kokopelli (4842)
• United States
21 Nov 06
see, you're not a dumpee, hehe.
@belenR (256)
• Philippines
21 Nov 06
it depends on how much u love the person...time will help u to move on..just keep yourself busy with your work or studies, focus to your family and friends...dont think of the past too much..pray always
@kokopelli (4842)
• United States
21 Nov 06
right. look ahead, move on, and pray always :)
• Singapore
20 Nov 06
what i normally do is 1) go out and party with friends 2) work work and work 3) go online and flirt with guys (LOL! juz kidding) 4) talk with close friends. they couldnt help much but it felt so much better letting it all out instead of locking myself in the room and crying my eyes out
@kokopelli (4842)
• United States
20 Nov 06
you know what? that's like hearing myself talkin'! LOL! :)
@kokopelli (4842)
• United States
20 Nov 06
oh, correction... except for number 3 - i wouldn't be kidding :)
• Singapore
20 Nov 06
LOL!!!
@lenith (1221)
• India
22 Nov 06
when u break up wid someone therez alwayz some reason it surely hurts one but remember all the bad times u had wid that person.......and stay happy shappy...that u aint wid that loser anymore
@kokopelli (4842)
• United States
22 Nov 06
right! :)
• United States
21 Nov 06
Try to find things to do to take your mind off of it. Concentrate on work or school or take up a new hobby or read a book!
@kokopelli (4842)
• United States
21 Nov 06
that's right, make one's self busy.
@blakky (137)
• Australia
21 Nov 06
no doubt you'll get 1000 different replies to this but there is no EASY way to get over anyone you truly cared about. time time time time...... sad but true. does make it easier if you don't keep seeing them all the time cause that makes it difficult to move on
@kokopelli (4842)
• United States
21 Nov 06
true. one needs to detach.