sick with stress

February 24, 2007 8:20pm CST
all i ever wantted was to be a mum at the age of 16,yes i know its wrong to have a baby at that age, but i didnt any way. when i 1st got pregnant, i was forced 2 have a termination, or be kicked out of the family home by my parents, but i wanted the baby so much.a few yrs later i fall pregnant and stood up to my parent and told my mum im keeping the baby.but as soon as i found out i was pregnant i had a miscarriage, ectopic pregnancy was thereson given, andi misscarriage, i am now 31 and in a loving relationshop of nearly 3 yrs i fall pregnant in 05 but we sadly lost our baby buy another misccarriage reson blighted ovum.. i so much want a baby with my partner i really do want a baby but will i ever get one with the man i want to marry and be with, if i cant i well tel my partner he need 2 find another women who can give him a child, and not stay with one that cant, my partner wants kids too but im scared of getting pregnant again and losing a 4th child this is so stressing me out and every nite all i do is cry. and my doctor are useless and at no help
1 response
@limosonia1 (1559)
• United States
25 Feb 07
Did you look into why you keep having miscarriages it could be a very simple explanation. It could be correct easly with medicince and bed rest when you do get pregnant. I wouldn't give up and I would leave my husband that I love because of it. If all else fail you can adopt and still have a child to love. My prayers are with you.
25 Feb 07
yes i saw my gno and they did a scan andfound nothink wrong, and my dr said was bad timing. i also asked my dr for medicince but he said no
25 Feb 07
thank you for replying,
• United States
25 Feb 07
There is a natural medicine so to speak. Usually miscarriages happen because the egg does not adhere properly to the uterus because all the hormones aren't in balance. If you would like I could research and send you the link. It might be something to think about. I know it is a hardtime right now because I too am trying toi get pregnant and every month I get disappointed. I also had a miscarriage and it was very hard to deal with.