Relationship - Why is it hard to break up????

@Rashu169 (4391)
India
February 25, 2007 5:10am CST
any idea guys???
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7 responses
@ruknaa (408)
• India
26 Feb 07
people live in denail and are not ready to accept the change. it is hard for them to believe that things they cherished for so long no longer exist
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@Rashu169 (4391)
• India
26 Feb 07
true it hurts to know that something you kept alive for so long has fizzeled out
@ruknaa (408)
• India
26 Feb 07
accept the truth.. gather your stuff and move ahead. if you stick around any longer you will only bring agony to both yourself and him/her
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@Rashu169 (4391)
• India
26 Feb 07
well till now i havent felt that with my love and we have ways to keep our relationship going strong......so cool
@simran1430 (1790)
• India
4 Mar 07
Make it clear that he or she doesn't have any major physical or intellectual faults. Nice people have a tendency to analyze the breakup for months. If they think it has something to do with a hook nose or lack of knowledge about Renaissance painters, they'll beat themselves up for years.
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@Rashu169 (4391)
• India
6 Mar 07
lol wow thats pretty surgical......
@catch_me (930)
• India
25 Feb 07
I really dnr knw y do i still love him?????? ...he gave me so much pain...he jus tried to kill me in other words...but i dnt understand after all this y do i love him for??? its very hard to breat it....
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@Rashu169 (4391)
• India
26 Feb 07
oohhh thats really sad.... so you still hung on him..... are they the memories happy ones u spent with him...if it is that then try to erase them
@lucky_witch (2710)
• Philippines
25 Feb 07
The thought of any kind of separation is hard to bear... classmates, friends, co worker, etc.. What more, if you're saying goodbye to someone whom you once thought of spending your whole life with. The thought that the you will never hear him/her say i love you, the fact that someday he would hold anothr girl's/man's hand, the thought that the special person whom once you called your man/girl... is having a life on his/her own without you... What about the things that you used to do together, what about your dreams, what about the memories... how can you find an easy way saying goodbye with these? Breaking up is hard, because its not just breaking...its letting go of something that has been a part of you... something very dear to your heart...its letting go a part of you...
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@Rashu169 (4391)
• India
26 Feb 07
well yeah i guess memories keep u tied up with breaking up
• India
25 Feb 07
First of all it is very difficult for the persons in relationship to think about getting broken up.they just cant imagine about that. the probable reason being that they share so much of things with one aonther that they can hardly live without one another.they come close to each other to such a great extent that they become a part of life of each other. NOW HOW CAN THEY THINK OF GETTING BROKEN UP?
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@tatzkie (644)
• Philippines
25 Feb 07
break up is really hard because it can be considered a major change in someone's life. For quite some time you've been accustomed to each other's presence and for whatever reason comes a break up. Anything that is life altering especially painful ones are hard to accept.
@Rashu169 (4391)
• India
25 Feb 07
ahha...true...its hard to say goodbye to someone...but do you think it actually changes your life in a big way?
25 Feb 07
I find it hard to break up with someone as I don't like having to face the fact that I might then be on my own. In the end though I think you need to realise that it is better to be on your own with the possiblity of meeting someone else rather than in an unhappy relationship forever.
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@Rashu169 (4391)
• India
25 Feb 07
well yeah ut do you think a lot before you take that step???