Would you be insulted, mad, upset?

@Mamaof2 (574)
Canada
February 25, 2007 9:23am CST
Ok, so I need your opinion so I can figure out weither I am over reacting. I have had this friend for over 10 years now. Things have been really rocky for the past year as she seems to want to put the computer and her bar buddies before me. I am constanly calling her, MSN her and trying to just be a friend..as I feel that is my job since we have been friends for so long. Not receiving really any sort of effort from her (which was starting to make me mad anyways.) She sends me this poem the other day that she had wrote and after reading it I was starting to expect that it was about having a miscarriage. I was very concerned..as normal. I then question her about it...and she goes on and on about how she had to go thro it alone and blah blah. I was very upset and insulted that she felt she couldn't come to me for support. Instead I find out that she made a call to one of her so called friends "you know, lets go out and party friend, not ever bring around friend" to come to the hospital with her. She couldn't go (doesn't surprise me) so my friend went alone. Do I have the right to be hurt that she couldn't count on her after all I have done for her. Oh ya, this happened almost two months ago...so she didn't even tell me right away. She said she didn't tell me..cause she knew that I would be upset that she didn't come to me. Your opinions please....
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