How do we keep our relation strong with our wife after marriage
By coolkunwar
@coolkunwar (67)
India
February 25, 2007 10:25am CST
Its surprise for me that after getting married only a few of people live happily but most of the couple are not able to get the relationship more stronger. i wanna know how do we keep our relations strong after getting married.
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@Only1Andrea (796)
• United States
25 Feb 07
Coolkunwar, this is a very good question and one that most people should be inquiring about.
First, Congrats!!!
Second, to answer your discussion question... My advise would be, whatever you did to make your wife fall in love with you, that is what you need to do in order to keep her.
Oftentimes, spouses (men and woman) get too comfortable after they get married. They no longer share romantic dinners and the flowers cease. The loving cards and love letters stop. The special e-mails and surprise gifts (even small ones count too) are no longer sent and/or given.
Yes, I know life goes on and you may not be able to do it as often, but the point of the matter is for you to continue doing something special for each other.
Even if it is running a nice hot bubble bath and/or a nice massage. Just showing that you still care about her day, her feelings. The conversations that you have shouldn't always be about the bills and what needs to be done around the house, although you will have to have those, but you should still find time for each other.
Best of luck to you and I am sure you will make a wonderful husband!
Your wife is a lucky woman!
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@coolkunwar (67)
• India
25 Feb 07
Thanks for responding me,
It was really beneficial answer to me, but one thing is there after getting married once we get really busy with our work its really difficult to give time to others i mean wife here because usually it happens that there are no hrs in business or when u are out of home for work. So how come we can give that much of the time to the wife specially when we have kids also. most of the time is spend on taking care of kids, leaving and picking up them at school and many more important work in day for other issues. Well i certainly agree to you that we should give time to our wife and should also take her out on ocassions also give time for intimate and physical relations.
@Only1Andrea (796)
• United States
26 Feb 07
That is very true. I mean it does get extremely difficult to do when there are so much more going on in your life. Nevertheless, just like you have to make an appointment for everything else it is even more important for you to make an appointment for your wife and also for family time.
this is important - there needs to be separate time for you and your wife and then for you and your wife and children.
Like I said it doesn't have to be every week, but it is important that your wife and children know that they are just as important or even moreso than your job and the cares of this life.
Best to you all!!
