GRADUATES...what's a BIG DEAL ?

Malaysia
February 26, 2007 6:08pm CST
nowadays...so many instant graduates people around..you'll never heard such institution that exist before.It is just a paper saying that you been here and there studying taking courses. But when it came to working in a real life...They are just loser who dont know about nothing. the worse is that they dont know how to RESPECT PEOPLE...they think they are better than others... I've been in this situation twice and I dont think I can stand any more... What can I do to get RESPECT when I ain't got any?
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@Autisteek (326)
• Philippines
27 Feb 07
First, You shouldn't ask for respect because respect is EARNED... meaning you will only gain it if you have proven that your worth... And why would you get mad and stoop down to the level of those people you are complaining about? You don't have to ask for their respect.. Find a crowd of your own, of the people worth respecting and try to belong there... If you will continue to insist yourself and assimilate with those kind of people, later on, you will be acquiring their behavior too. If you can't really get into it, maybe its time you start asking questions about yourself and contemplate... because maybe, the problem isn't really with them. Maybe it is somewhere else, where you have overlooked or maybe it is just to close for you to see. Second, so what if these "graduates" flash their diplomas and sell themselves, yet, as you said, know about nothing? Let them be, and shift your attention to your own improvements. As time passes and they continue o mingle with profesionals, the truth will prevail, ignorance cannot be hidden... unless you are wrong (that they know nothing), and that they are able to make it in their chosen field because, in contrary to what you said, they really know a thing or two... so don't get insecured about them having a place that you could have had. its just a matter of selling oneself for a job ar a position and maybe they are good in it that's why they had it. Another thing, entering a formal class/school/university does not guarante hollistic education. Yes, we have developed more and more degrees and courses but if you would assess, we lave lesser judgment and awareness of the society we're in. And schooling can even hinder our education. And I have known a few who had not been to colleges and universities but know more than I do and can really get through life with flying colors. So do not look down on this people with the kind of learning they had.. I know what pisses you here. Its their attitude/behavior. Of course, it is normal for them to be proud if they have achieved something. And I don't think you should have hard feelings with that. Everyone has a chance to prove themselves as you do.
• Malaysia
27 Feb 07
seems to me like all your reason and explaination is more to defend those YAHOO'S...Might be that u're one of them.So,be it...I really dont have any problem with it but it annoiying me when there 's no one is there wants to straight things up. I am not highly educated myself but with my experience I learn a lot not to being a hypocrite.
• Philippines
28 May 07
The truth is i do not belong with their kind. I sometimes resent my college who offers a two-month program for those who want to be a licensed teacher, when I am trying to finish a four-year course of bachelor of Secondary education... I have the right to get mad because my four year effort and expenses is only equated to a two-month training, and students from either program can take the professional regulatory exam afterwards. Quite unfair, isn't it? but I Tell myself, in the end, i learned more because i was exposed more to what i should really learn and to the methods of teaching that I should acquire as a future educator. Now, i do not sulk in misery anymore nor complain about the prejudices because in the end, it will all show.