What is the criterion do you choose when you want to make a relationship?

Malaysia
February 26, 2007 10:54pm CST
What is the criterion do you choose when you want to make someone as you friend or you lover? a.Is it because of he is a handsome guy? b.Is it because she is a pretty girl? c.Is it because of his/her wealth and fortune? d.Is it because of the quality of his/her life and mind? e.Is it because of his/her generous and smart. Share your opinion here.
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8 responses
• United States
27 Feb 07
I would have to say it's because of his or her quality of life and mind. I think it's important to be friends with people who have some stability in their lives.
• Malaysia
28 Feb 07
Quality of life, mind and stability of live are things we need to think before you accept you soul mate.Love without money also nothing.Money without love also something wrong with live.
• Malaysia
27 Feb 07
It just normal for having such criteria while choosing soul mate. Sometime we found one and sometime they found us. About the criteria, i do think i want educated women, pretty look both inner and outside look, bright skin, shorter than mine, should be younger, good in islamic studies and so on. I have this criteria deep down i really want it. But as the time goes, i just leave for what have been ready for me by God, i trust that more than my life if God set like that :) anyway we have to work hard for that...How about you?
• Malaysia
28 Feb 07
Yes, we need to work hard and don't forget to pray and ask from the God for our successful.I agree with your statement.
@hopefoo (1145)
• Malaysia
27 Feb 07
I choose to be friends with people who are down to earth. I choose to friends with people who have almost the same interest as I do, preferably with a little bit of knowledge about everything. I like people who are...who have the "jack of all trades, master of none" syndrome. And I definitely do not hang out with people that put me down. Bad for the ego, y'know?
• Malaysia
27 Feb 07
You have a good point and I very agree with you.Someone which always have the attitude "down to earth" can be are good friend whether we are in god or bad situation.
@kapoet (271)
• Indonesia
27 Feb 07
I'll like have many friends. But the most important I always wanted a friend who have a peace, love, unity and respect on their mind. That's the most. But for love, must more than that. He must have a good brain. Future thinking....
• Malaysia
27 Feb 07
What is your another criterion for your future lover? would you tell me?
• India
27 Feb 07
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• Malaysia
27 Feb 07
What do you mean with your writing?
• Malaysia
27 Feb 07
To me I would never put handsome or wealth as the number one criterion in my checklist. However I do have several checklists... lol... 1. He must love me no matter what 2. I must love him in the first place
• Malaysia
27 Feb 07
How about if the ugly man falling in love with you, do you'll accept him?
@sebab315 (108)
• Philippines
27 Feb 07
im not really conscious of the criteria but i do value honesty in my friends or in any relationship i am in for that matter. i tend to also choose people who have strong sense of humor and those who value other people's time.
• Malaysia
28 Feb 07
Honesty is one of quality criteria to have a good relationship with our friend and lover.Without it anything become trouble, and we will disappointed.
@mistym (18)
• United States
27 Feb 07
Absolute honesty and integrity...qualities unfortuneatly that can only be told after time well spent with an individual in regular activities, observed around others, and reactions during crisis and stress. Then as I once told my girlfriend...you have to ask how they squeeze the toothpaste... (the top half is serious..the bottom half is half joking. :))
• Malaysia
27 Feb 07
Honesty and integrity is the important thing which will become a quality in relationship.I'm laughing now when I read your bottom writing.have a great day and happy always my friend.