Help me pls...give me som decent advice som1
February 27, 2007 5:31pm CST
Me and my best friend we'v been together for a long time now and i don't know how or when but i've really fallen for him. I love him and i adore him to the extent i'd worship him!I waited for the longest time for som kinda hint from him that he maybe felt the same abt me...there were some little little hints but nothing major. a coment here a word there thats all. Finally i snaped and just asked him to be my boy friend. He was surprised and he sed yes to me 1st but then a day or 2 later he sed no it's not possible! I was shocked and i really tried to just let it be cos i thot he didn like me in that way. But then i he confessed he did like me but he'd never say he loves me cos it's hopeless. the prob is we are not only from the same caste but we aren't even of the same religion! For me it's no prob 4 me but his family doesn't agree...now i feel totally lost...not only did i not get my dream guy but i think m about to lose my best friend too...what should i do???!!
27 Feb 07
well. i think your best friend respect his family values. if the religion is the matter for the two of you. i think you should better join his religion if you love him that much. prove to his parents or family that you love him and that you are willing to convert yourself to their religion if that what make both of you happy to be together with each other. now a days when it comes to relationships its the religion of one person is the reason why some break up. even here in philippines it happen so the only resolution is to convert yourself to your partner's religion for the two of you together forever. religion is on big hurdle that a lot of us id facing right now. while others don't mind. so i guess. just do what you think is right.
• United States
27 Feb 07
Well if you value your friendship you guys will get over it. He is probably thinking he doesn't want to ruin the friendship and try a relationship. But if it is too hard for you to take when he dates someone else you might want to stay your distance
• South Korea
27 Feb 07
His family has arranged a marriage for him and he doesn like to talk about it neither do i...but he's also becoming distant. Keeps saying stuff like it's best for me if i forget him. I tried that but i wasn able to i'd rather have him around at least as a friend if nothing els...