How do you want to be treated in a relationship?

Philippines
February 27, 2007 9:07pm CST
I came to realize that I dont want a guy to treat me like a queen, a guy who'll give me anything. At the same time, I dont want a guy who will treat me like his servant. I want someone who can be my partner. I want the two of us doing things together with mutual respect, open communication, partnership and trust bound together by the love we have for each other.
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• Philippines
28 Feb 07
It would be good if he will treat me as i am, we well commuicate openly, respect each other, love each other, faithful and if we got marriage we will both earn a living and if we are at home, do the household chores, take good care of our siblings, (if we have).
• Philippines
28 Feb 07
I want to be treated in equal footing. I want to receive the love based on what I give. Though sometimes I'm not reciprocated with that. But that is fine with me, as long as we consider each other an essential part in our lives. I want to be treated in a way that I don't feel that his my boyfriend but by means that show my importance to him. Showing me my essence to your life is what I want you to treat me. Just be as caring as possible, it is enough. Give me enough freedom to do what I want to do without sacrificing our intimate moments together. I think that is enough.
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@cherhost (1072)
• United States
28 Feb 07
Like a queen duh!!! Butr that will never happen because I am not a queen.
@patgalca (18174)
• Orangeville, Ontario
28 Feb 07
I feel the same way. Unfortunately it doesn't always work that way. I don't think I've ever been treated like a queen and wouldn't mind it once in awhile. I want to be his best friend and though he says I am his best friend, he doesn't act like I am. There are different means of trust. He thinks trust means loyalty, fidelity. He doesn't realize that it means I can trust him to be here when he says he'll be here, or when I need him. Sometimes I think I expect too much. Sometimes I think I settled for less.
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• United States
28 Feb 07
as an equal.
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