women courting men - acceptable or not? =)

I think it is acceptable...why shouldn't it be? You could spare yourself from a lifetime of misery of waiting for the man you like to court you and wouldn't. So I don't find anything wrong in taking charge. But do it subtly. I did court my partner by always being there for him and occasionally dropping hints that I like him. I sure am glad I did it because now we are together, a couple. I was spared from the lifetime of what ifs and what could have beens because I made a choice to win the person I want. Ofcourse most often than not you will get rejected. But that is part of life. If that happens just let it be you'll heal soon enough :)