what do u do if ur best friend starts hating u.....????

@meera88 (737)
India
February 28, 2007 3:52am CST
if u hav a best friend who starts hatin u....bcos u did somethin unknowingly that made him suffer..... now he starts hatin u.....but doesnt shows that directly...he jus tells it to others in ur friends circle.... wat wud u do...? jus maintain a diplomatic relationship wit him or try to console him n make him ur friend again..????
4 responses
@ajeetmish (165)
• Germany
1 Mar 07
HI the exact situation happened with me.as one of my frnd started hating me because of some problem between us.now i am going to tell you what i've done.the people whome he was telling all those things i never told them any abusing words or any heart breaking sentences about him.even i always told them about his good qualities and all other good things about us.i never made a mistake to tell them any rubbish thing abt him.and whenever he meet me i never ignored him always being like a cheerful person.i was the first person who wish him, his b'day but i haven't attended his party.and in my wishes i only told him that im always there 4 u whenever u need my help.coz u were and ur still my good frnd.And now we r again best friends. TRY THIS IF UR HAVING SAME SITUATION.IT WILL TAKE TIME BUT UR FRND WILL BE AGAIN UR BEST FRND.
@meera88 (737)
• India
2 Mar 07
well jus now i read it n rated it....but he is always tryin to avoid me .....when i go to his room he jus gets into his bedsheet n pretends to be asleep.... n i also sometimes am becoming frustrated by him...
• Germany
2 Mar 07
i think there must be some serious problem don't get tensed.he will come on the track its my assurance to u.i think do what i told u and leave him as he is,everything will be alright.
• Germany
2 Mar 07
hey u didn't commented my response .i think you didn't read that.its really goin to help you.so read it.
• Pakistan
28 Feb 07
You said your best friend? than why he just cant share with you what hurted him and if he is your best friend than how can you just ignore him ? There is something wrong
@meera88 (737)
• India
28 Feb 07
well tats the prob he thinks i made him suffer knowingly......n he thinks tat i backstabbed him.......he is tellin abt tis to all my friends but not to me.....
• Pakistan
1 Mar 07
If this is the situation than you should talk to him and try to explain , i will even suggest to give him some small gift or share some pleasant moments with him.
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@meera88 (737)
• India
1 Mar 07
well tat seems to be a gud idea ....i will try doin it....thanks for ur help/....
@pateela5 (39)
• Pakistan
2 Mar 07
Im gonna kick his asssssssssssssssss!!!!
@m_audrey6788 (58485)
• Germany
1 Mar 07
You should talk to him about it and ask what can you do to give you another chance to show him that you really are sorry for what you have done that made him so mad. Best friends is like a marriage relationships if one will not give then relationship will suffer.