What would you do?

I would have to agree with what other posters have mentioned. You need to clear the air between you and this person first and foremost and the only way to do that is to confront them. You need to find out why they posted the comments that they did, especially since you say they are all wrong. It could be, as you said, that they were frustrated about something and were just attempting to find some way to vent. There is a certain anonymity when it comes to blogging and perhaps they felt that they could post their feelings publicly without repercussions. To be honest though I would seriously consider severing ties with this person. If they could stoop to telling lies just to make themselves feel better than I do not believe they deserve to be in your close circle of friends.

Tough situation. Before you confront this person, make sure that you are 100% proof positive that they are talking about you. I have been stabbed in the back many times and learned to pick and choose my friends carefully. I would rather have one or two people that I can call true friends than tons of people that I 'might' be able to count on if push came to shove. If I were in your shoes I would approach things differently. I would ignore the whole thing and act as though it never happened but I would not go out of my way to call or meet up with the person that wrote those things. Eventually guilt and paranoia will get the best of them, when they start to pester you and ask you what's wrong, you have the choice of mentioning what was written or blowing them off completely. If someone isn't going to be honest with you about how they feel ... do you really want them as a friend? Are they worth your time and effort? The next time you get upsset about this situation, think about that.

what can I say, it's a bit vague for me, but then, i understand you meant it to be. Dropping names is bad, and making up stories that will put the other in a bad light is definitely upsetting. In your case, you've done nothing to trigger such animosity or bitterness in your friend. Maybe, it was his/her intuition that makes him/her see you in a different light other than as a friend. Or maybe s/he's read into your what you're saying and it struck home. You know some people are a bit touchy about what others say, especially if you're not really that close and you don't know what she's been through and thinking. You may want to talk to him/her about it, or you may let it go. That depends on how you take this subject. If this is uncalled-for, I guess it's OK to let her/him know you're angry at what s/he's doing to you.

I no what your talking about. Although what she said was true and it's her feelings. I'm sorry it's only you who sees it in this light. Your a friend to me but you do act selfish and although it's something I can easily forget. That thing you did to make Kate say these wasn't. You'll be waiting sometime if you expect Kate to say sorry to you. There's nothing more selfish when someone saves your back and doesn't receive a thank you in return. As for how to go about it, the only thing you can do is stop being childish and grow up. I see a lot of your sister in and Kate isn't doing anything to come between your relationship. If you made a little effort in making up for your behaviour, you know the fact you stole copyrighted images lied about it those who stopped lawsuit's coming your way, only to find you thinking of YOURSELF. Once again you've done this and I'm not bothered what you think. This is the truth and stop thinking like your sister, you are a wonderful person to know!!!! just when you act like this. ~Joey

I'm sorry that you're going through such a time right now. Sometimes, people we consider friends do or say things that are totally out of character, and in the meantime someone else gets hurt. I too have been through something like this before and I was terribly hurt at the time. 10 years down the line I still don't know why this person fell out with me or what I did wrong - but I don't care anymore. I got over it when I realized that people have their own reasons for doing things and saying things, and that if they don't want to tell you they won't. I hope that your friend will at least tell you why they did what they did, and that you can somehow repair your friendship. You DO have a right to know why they started making comments about you. I hope that this can be sorted soon.

First of all dear, I'm sorry that such a thing like this has to happen to you. You feel sad, disappointed, distressed, upset, and maybe angry too.. I want to say I understand what you're going through, but I can't say that as I will never exactly feel a same pain as yours. The best thing to do is to confront the person. This would probably be hard - but you should ask the person what made him/her say such things. He/She may be undergoing something terrible at the moment, and had said/written things he/she does not really mean. If that is the case, he/she is probably feeling terrible now. If not, then ask him/her what the problem is. You are hurting, and he/she is hurting too - and this would be the hardest bit of all: One must long to understand first before longing to be understood. Of course, it would be perfectly understandable too, should you choose to let go of that person, after all the things he/she had spoken/written. But then, you could be proving that some of the things he/she have mentioned could be true, after all. Those above are my opinions, and as such, you can mull over them or not. Know, though, that there may be people who you care for that may hurt you, but there are also people who are willing to risk everything just to see you happy. Take care, dear, and I pray that all these will be resolved soon.