I want to get married this year...

@Jemina (5770)
February 28, 2007 4:52am CST
but I don't have a bf. Just wait and see ;-D
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22 responses
• Indonesia
1 Mar 07
It's always good be picky person coz you must choose a best... very best person that can love or be loved. Married for me is once for life, as God said in Baibel.
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@Jemina (5770)
4 Mar 07
Is that so? I had bf for 4 years and nothing happened. well...
@Jemina (5770)
1 Mar 07
Thanks a lot, Zetta, that was very comforting to know. You're so kind. I also like your principle. Best regards :-D
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• Indonesia
4 Mar 07
He...he.... To be honest, I took for almost 1 year to make proposal as my girl friend. Than I dated with for almost 8 years until I asked her to be my wife in 3 years ago. But all that time are worth.
@crosa125 (1483)
28 Feb 07
would you like me to order you one,which one would you like,hey becareful,you are not going to by house my friend this year i'm going to buy house if i didn't like it i sell it then go to another one,slow down a bit so you won't get hurt,i wish you all the best anyway
@Jemina (5770)
1 Mar 07
Oh my word! But your 24 hour deadline has already expired :-(
@Jemina (5770)
1 Mar 07
Hahaha, do you want to know first what's my preference? JK! Anyway, thanks for your admonition.
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@crosa125 (1483)
1 Mar 07
no cos i didn't get my ring yet
@samson1967 (7414)
• India
28 Feb 07
Why dont you retister with reputed matrimonial sites to get a life partner. But if you have decided to marry only the Boy friend, then all the best. But dont wait too long,you might become old.
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@Jemina (5770)
28 Feb 07
Thanks! Actually, there's already plenty of men here in Bangkok but I'm too picky.
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• India
1 Mar 07
One of my friends sister is still unmarried( she is 35 yrs old now), because she used to refuse all the men, by giving one or the other reason. like Fat, Dark, Dont have a dress code. etc...Hope you will not land in the same boat.
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@Jemina (5770)
1 Mar 07
Ngeks! :-@ Thanks for the admonition. You made me think. I'll keep that in mind.
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@rsa101 (37968)
• Philippines
1 Mar 07
Oh that's quite a dealine your setting for yourself. I guess that it is quie a pressure finding a BF and getting married that fast within the year. But asI was reading others post you've said you're already engaged? Wow you really are working on fast with your planned marriage. Anyway Goodluck hope your wish will come true soon! Keep me posted.
@Jemina (5770)
1 Mar 07
I WAS engaged but not anymore so can't really keep up with my scheduled or planned timetable. Funny, isn't it? I'll keep you posted, for sure :-D
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@cefaz_21 (2596)
• Philippines
1 Mar 07
hi! just make sure you're not marrying a person because you wanted to get married this year ha? life is good! enjoy what you have now, am sure God has prepared someone right for you, just wait and be excited..when I was not married yet and do not know whom I'll end up to? I prayed for that person eventhough I don't know him yet..I asked God to take good care of him etc..etc..it's funny coz when we're married na, I told him.."you know what? I've been praying for you"..:)
@Jemina (5770)
1 Mar 07
Thanks for sharing your experience. It's amusing and it made me smile :-D Thanks also for your advice. I'll keep that in mind. Best regards!
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@sumi123 (129)
• India
1 Mar 07
Advance marriage wishes buddy.. As you want a BF just note down the points or the qualities that you expect from you BF and check if any of your friends have them and life is made more simple la. Are just try some marimony site you will get a lot of ideas. ALL THE BEST
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@Jemina (5770)
1 Mar 07
I think that's the thing that keeps me from getting a new bf. I have set a standard way too high for anyone to meet. anyway, thanks for your wishes! I appreciate it already. Best regards :-D
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• Canada
28 Feb 07
The best way to find a boyfriend or girlfriend is to QUIT LOOKING!!! Quit trying so hard. You may not get what you want this year, but someone WILL come along when you are not expecting it. That will take the pressure off of you and off of any potential partners.
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@Jemina (5770)
1 Mar 07
I think you're right. Thanks for that reminder. I'll surely do that.
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• Philippines
1 Mar 07
lol..well that would be a big problem you dont have a bf. why dont you feel and explore being single? being single is so great you have all the freedom and alot of chance to improve yourself. i think there are lots of sites now offering freindship from other countries.
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@Jemina (5770)
1 Mar 07
Exactly! But why am I so worried? I know there are lots of things I have to be thankful being single. But I just think that I'm single long enough and ready to take the next step. oops!
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• Philippines
28 Feb 07
It would be indeed a very hard thing for you to find the right man which will suit you and meet your standards. It is as hard for me to find a woman who would be like you in terms of intellect and morale. Don't be afraid of your age. For sure, you'll be able to find that man who is really meant for you. You're still young and you have a great chance at making a wonderful family someday.
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@Jemina (5770)
1 Mar 07
Rated positive. Thanks for your advise and upliftment.
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@ethanmama (1745)
• Philippines
2 Mar 07
I got married at the age of 34 and had my first child at 35. My husband is someone I love with all my heart, and I'm glad I didn't rush into marriage. Your future partner will appear when it's the right time. When he does, you'll be glad you waited.
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@Jemina (5770)
2 Mar 07
That's wonderful. I got inspired by your story. Thanks a lot.
@simplysue (631)
• United States
1 Mar 07
Don't worry about a timetable or standards that you have set for yourself Jemina. When the right one comes along your standards get washed down the storm drain and your heart is full and happy anyway! As for that time table.....I was 33 years old when I met my Mr Right. Don't worry because when it's meant to happen it will happen. Good Luck my friend. I hope your Mr. Right comes along soon for you. :)
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@Jemina (5770)
1 Mar 07
Thanks so much, Simply Sue! That was very inspiring. Thanks for sharing. You made me feel so much better. Best regards :-D
@cherriemae (3370)
• Philippines
1 Mar 07
How old are you girl? it's not a problem if you dont have a bf, i can refer some of you if you want. Or you can met foreigner if you want, here at net..Have you ever try some of the websites here? Me, i met my bf here at the net, and i hope he will be the one..Try some of this site...www.cherryblossoms.com or filipinaheart.com..Just register and post your beautiful pics..I hope i can help you..goodluck girl..
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@Jemina (5770)
1 Mar 07
Thanks, Cherriemae. And congrats on your finding a bf on the net. Actually, I got engaged a few months ago. And I'm old enough to get married. In fact, for Filipinos I have already past the prime time of a marrying age. But I'm not regretful as I see other people getting married at my age and even later.
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@coolsree (509)
• India
28 Feb 07
Hi, It is a good decision that to be in a company . I wish you all the best in finding a good boy friend ( Life partner ) . If you would like to find a boy onlie you have agreat world of people are at your door steps to select. Be ware find a godd man that suits. Like me
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@Jemina (5770)
28 Feb 07
I'll think about it. LOL! Thanks for your advise.
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@loisse21 (214)
• Philippines
1 Mar 07
thats the spirit kabayan...but dont push yourself too hard on it...it would eventually happen right place right time right person cheers
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@Jemina (5770)
2 Mar 07
Nice avatar, I like it. Thanks for your encouragement, Loisse. Just thinking out loud here. :-D Best regards
@playgirl (1359)
• Philippines
1 Mar 07
getting married is a lifetime relationships you must think it a million times before you enter in that situation. your age is not too old you can find your real partner soon.
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@Jemina (5770)
1 Mar 07
Oh, Playgirl, you're such a good friend. That's so sweet of you. Thanks for lifting me up! :-D
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@sunita64 (6469)
• India
4 Mar 07
Wish you all the best in search for a boyfriend. May your wish come true. Amen.
@Jemina (5770)
5 Mar 07
Thanks Sunita.
• Philippines
4 Mar 07
i cant help but smile at this..wanting to get married but no bf yet (",)..i'd say find a guy first and see what its like to be tied up in a relationship first. i'm not sure though if you've been into one..but wanting to be married is one thing..and being happy in getting married is another thing..enjoy life sister..dont be in a hurry.
@Jemina (5770)
5 Mar 07
LOL! I was just thinking out loud. Thanks for your opinion. it's appreciated. :-D
@ghost1380 (871)
• Philippines
2 Mar 07
best wished and have fun
@Jemina (5770)
2 Mar 07
thanks, ghost. but how can i have fun if I don't have a bf?
@steerforth (1797)
• Italy
4 Mar 07
Ok so if you haven't a boyfriend do you want to get married with me?:D
@Jemina (5770)
5 Mar 07
LOL! You better think twice :-D
• Philippines
28 Feb 07
Ooh, cool!^^ Congratulations on your wedding day already, dear. \m/^_^
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