Whats bad in having two wives? Questions of so many lives

I have reproduced your discussion with a few changes. What is your opinion on this. My opinion on your discussion is the same as that: I know a person having a husband and two kids. She did love marriage and still loves her husband too. But she also loves another man even before her marriage. Whats wrong if she want to have two husbands????? Her husband knows about her another love affair but still living with him becoz they love each other. And she on the other hand didnt leave the other man for the sake of her husband? this means she also loves that man. And that man also knows about her husband and kids and he also cant leave her becoz both love each other. Where is the real problem. as this is not that simple matter any advice for any of party involved?

I think you are one of them,And did not let us know,OK and i amsorry to say that.Yes there is nothing bad in having two wives at the same time I would like to say thatperson should marrie the girl he loves with the permision of her wife.

If all parties agree then it is fine, but I personally would never get involved with a man who is in love with another. I want someone whi is only in love with me, and I will only love him. Also, in some cultures multiple marriage is more acceptable. Not in Canada where I am, though. If all parties agree, that is fine, but if not, then it is wrong. I'd never do it.

When they are all happy know whats going on they who are we to say what is good and what is bad.according to quran “Marry women of your choice, two, or three, or four; but if ye fear that ye shall not be able to deal justly (with them), then only one.” In Western society, it is common for a man to have mistresses and/or multiple extra-marital affairs, in which case, the woman leads a disgraceful, unprotected life. The same society, however, cannot accept a man having more than one wife, in which women retain their honourable, dignified position in society and lead a protected life. Thus the only two options before a woman who cannot find a husband is to marry a married man or to become 'public property'. Islam prefers giving women the honourable position by permitting the first option and disallowing the second. There are several other reasons, why Islam has permitted limited polygyny, but it is mainly to protect the modesty of women.

as far as i know the bible speaks of this as being adultry and that is one of the comandments, you took a vow with your wife when you married.that vow should not be broken.also what self respectin persin would want to be a third in a marriage god intended marriage to be between one man and one woman.