wen two people luv each other why they losse luv?

United States
February 28, 2007 11:10pm CST
why do they losse love i mean they promise they will alwayz love each other but little by little u losse love even if u both see each other often,talk on the phone every day u start feeling that da love is gone....thats wat i feel my b/f says nothin is wrong but on da phone he sounds like watevers like if he doesnt want 2 talk and he makes this excuses that his brother needs the phone and that he is going to call me bak and he never does we see each other often and i alwayz show i luv him unless i'm doing sumtin wrong but why do two ppl that love each other so much end up lossin the love or mayb the love is still their and its just me thinkin bad wat could it be.... help me plz
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6 responses
• Canada
3 Mar 07
I don't think you lost the love, maybe ur partner just need time to be with himself again just like before he commit to you. Men just don't like women who is always checking on them they feel as if it's their obligation to report every detail of their actvity outside the relationship especially when ur not around. As for us women, we tend to guard our BF because we feel we have the right on him, but maybe if u just give him some time to be with himself for a while i think u can still win him back. Just let him know that you trust him and whenever his not around u miss him.
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• United States
4 Mar 07
well i talked 2 my b/f & he said da reason he dont really feel lik talking on da phone is cuz he rather talk 2 me in person & not hav 2 discuss our whole relationship over da phone cuz den wen we are in person we wont hav anythin 2 talk about
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@msqtech (15074)
• United States
29 Mar 07
no one likes being doubted
• India
1 Mar 07
I dont have an answer to your question, bkoz most of the time we end up loosing the person we love, actually loving someone is easy but to make it stronger and longer isvery difficult.. for you i will only say is give some time and think positive.. bkoz negetive thoughts can end the relation in seconds.. best of luck i will pray that your love remains for ever..
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• United States
1 Mar 07
u are ryt if i keep thinking negative da relationship is going to end up bad so i'ma keep thinkin positive
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@msqtech (15074)
• United States
29 Mar 07
We have doubts because of our insecurities and we put them on our significant other.
• India
2 Mar 07
the only one reason for it unsufficiant maturity to handle the love or relationship.
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• India
1 Mar 07
when u love too much .. u care it so much that u cant tolerate asingle thing that make losse......
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• Philippines
26 Jun 07
Too much love is not good. Maybe you guys are too tired of each other that makes you both not happy and satisfied with your relationship. You wake up one day that you didn't miss each other because you have already gave all your love at first that you haven't realized that you also need spaces for individual choices.