Single Mother Of Two Kids

my boyfriend pays child support, and he doesn't get adequate visitation even though his son lives 15 min away. his ex wife is a b****. her and her new husband make more than we do, and we have a 7 month old, and its hard. sometimes it feels like she sucking him dry out of spite. his son is nowhere near the point where he is suffering. in fact, he has more stuff than he really needs. i feel my daughter is suffering because of it. i have to rely on my parents to help us out with her because we have just enough to pay bills after he pays the support. have you looked into the court system to have it taken out of his paychecks? that way he has no choice to give you the money you rightfully deserve for your children. good luck

I am married to a man who paid child support for years. We always paid it, but sometimes it was hard. We always said that if we had custody of the children, we would have all just cut back. With child support, you have to pay it if you have it or not. It's hard paying for children you seldom see.

It is usually like, a mother has a tendancy to love one child more than the other Either it is a slight variation or whatever You might not notice it, but then they do And they take that into their account for their whole lives I know being a kid, i know neither am i too much helping for my mother But yes, I can give her this assurance that once i start earning I will lend her a helping hand, because as of now i cannot do anything for her except to love her And there is nothing i can give her something comparable in exchange for that immense loving and caring she has done for me hats off to her!

ok good