the bigger picture for the girls and women
March 2, 2007 12:24pm CST
I was in a lost state of mind when some of my family was putting me down this week. I sat and thought alot, alot of why am I here on earth.I died as a baby only to come back to life after being declared dead,to do what, be a mom, a wife,and be called names and be trash under everyones feet? And then this morning as I laid in bed I was starting to think again and then with a aggervating sigh, I rolled over and went back to sleep.I woke up 30 minutes later with a new thought! Why am I here isn't the question I should ask and I shouldn't be asking why am I here,what have I done that is so important. That God ,who is the greatest, created the world in 7 days,and made man and woman by his own hands,gave each woman a important job,to help him make a child,to have and to love,to bare the pain of birth,to bare the burdens of parenting as a mother does.I have three, he shared this three times with me, and every woman is just as blessed with these talents.No man can carry a baby,or birth it, or be the one to tell the boy how to comfort his woman ,or a daughter how to act like a lady,and cook and care for her own family ot come.I am important. I have did something specialin me.And as long as I live I know the reason for being is I have kids,and then one day grandkids,great grand kids to share life with.Do you know that you are special as well.If you don't you are ladies.
2 Mar 07
I would recommend that you try to do something about your low self esteem. I truly do understand how you feel, as at one time I felt that I was worthless, useless, hopeless, and in doing that I allowed every one to treat me like I was all those things, You will only get respect if you demand it, And I do not mean stand there and scream at some one who is treating you disrespectfully.But you do need to call people when they say mean and untrue things about you, You will find that as your self respect grows so will the respect from people around you. You can only be a door mat if you lay down and allow people to walk on you.And by the way you are on the way already, as you were able to look inside your self and see part of your self worth, keep searching, and your knowledge will grow, it is a wonderful experience,