How do you tell a friend....

March 2, 2007 2:44pm CST
How can i tell my best friend that he cannot sing and that i dont want him to embarres himself on national tv on xfactor plz help his mum wont do it so ill have to do it if he goes ahead with it.
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2 Mar 07
Perhaps it is better to say nothing and let your best friend find out for himself. All you need to do is be there for him when he is disappointed, but don't hurt his feelings by telling him he's no good. Besides, he might surpirse you all by being better than everyone thinks
2 Mar 07
its hard though, i really dont wanna see him devistated when he gets ridiculed on national tv i mean there are lots of people in school and the whole area in which i live in watch xfactor and he will be riddiculed for the rest of his life.
@maribel1218 (3085)
• Philippines
3 Mar 07
Oh! that was something big I think maybe the best time to tell it is now! truth can be hurtful but it will save him from shame and other stuff if he will be showed on national tv. Explain to him in detailed the pros and cons when he can be viewed by anyone on the national TV and then tell him straight on a nice matter that he can sing nice sometimes but most of the times he can't. Goodluck balthazar and I do hope you can find the courage to tell it to him now.
@zal3x89 (280)
• Romania
2 Mar 07
hmmm iv allways said that honesty sucks the best way to say it to him/her is to go and tell him dont try to write a letter or an email or something like that its harder that way hope this helps