one night stand????
By sonam14
@sonam14 (141)
India
March 2, 2007 9:38pm CST
give a take on following situation.
your partner sleeps in the same room with another man because of the helplessness that no room was available in that hotel on a business trip.and she also doesnt let that man touch herself.also, she is not able to tell you coz she felt that you could leave her if she would tell you..
but somehow you get to know about this.WHAT WILL YOU DO??
will you forgive her???
OR
and also if you get to know that, that man had done all that deliberately to sllep with your girlfriend. will you tell this to your girlfriend or will you let her know by herself.??
OR
will you protect your girlfriend from this man to let it happen again??
OR
will you ask her to leave the job?
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2 responses
@SageMother (2277)
• United States
3 Mar 07
Since you are using the word "partner" I must assume that this is not a spouse in the situation.
Assuming this is not a spouse and assuming there has benn no formal agreement for monogamy, there is nothing to forgive. Unless two people actually agree, which means it is not assumed, that they will remain monogamous, there has been no violation ... real or imagined. There is no "right" to demand a change in jobs, there are no grounds for conflict.
If there is a need to make changes in the agreement, now is the time to do so but IF and ONLY IF there is also a pending marriage, which means a proposal is made at the time that the re-negotiation takes place AND that marriage will occur before a year passes. For me, that marriage would have to take place before the end of an 8 month period for the proposal to be taken seriously, but everyone has their own threshold.
Women put their lives on hold and start answering to their male "partners" way too easily.
