following your partner to see if they are cheating!!!!!!!!ever done this?

@graham31 (487)
March 3, 2007 3:08am CST
Has anyone suspected their partner of cheating and followed them to find out if they are?What was the result if you did?
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@bluewings (3857)
4 Mar 07
If it ever reaches that stage for me,I would much prefer having an open conversation about it.If I can trust what she believes then I'd not follow her around and if I don't trust her I would tell her so.After the discussion if I still feel like tailing her around to find the truth then trust is obviously out of the relationship.In that case I wouldn't like to know anymore coz it would be pointless.
@graham31 (487)
5 Mar 07
very valid point when trust goes your not left with much
@simran1430 (1793)
• India
4 Mar 07
Learning to trust each other is never an overnight project. Start with small opportunities to grow closer together and build from there. If you can rebuild trust in smaller situations, you'll have good odds of eventually rebuilding full relationship trust.
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@graham31 (487)
5 Mar 07
when trust goes it hard to get it back