something wrong with my girlfreind.
By li_queenthuy
@li_queenthuy (6)
Singapore
March 4, 2007 2:20am CST
i had a girlfriend with me for more then 7 years since i was 18. Then lately since 3 months ago she had been bugging me to start our marriage, but i felt that she still not ready for it, as she is not that kind of girl that want to settle down so soon.
But last week, we have this a discussion about this marriage thing again,and so i aggree with her.
next when i start to prepare stuff for the big day,she called me up.Saying that she want to cancel the marriage and want to brake with me.
IS there something wrong with her or is my problem?can some pls tell me.
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2 responses
@christieswebb (238)
• United States
4 Mar 07
She might not know exactly what she wants. It sounds like she was thinking that your relationship should be going to the next level. If she decided to cancel maybe it just wasn't right for her.
It sounds like her problem to me.
She might have some insecurites about herself and having the wedding coming up brought all those out.
Maybe it is time to move on.
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@li_queenthuy (6)
• Singapore
4 Mar 07
hi,
thats what i think so,i actually think that she might actually want to brake up with me in the first place. the marriage thing is to make a fool out of me.
@judyt00 (3496)
• Canada
4 Mar 07
No,I suspect the problem is with you. who dates for 7 years if they want an real relationship? Obviously, she has finally seen you for what you are, and realizes that you are very controlling. How many times has she brought up marriage in the past 7 years and you have dismissed her, probably more than a dozen, but now you have decided that maybe she is ready for it, NO, its you who is finally ready for it, and she has decided not to wait for you any more, she will go find someone who respects her enough to be serious the first time she talks of marriage.Good for her! I hope she finds someone who will treat her better than you did
@li_queenthuy (6)
• Singapore
4 Mar 07
you maybe right. but why happen so sudden. You know sometime when you do something that hurt someone else, she at least nedd top do some talking with me or saying goodbye right. but she just give me a call about the cancelliation and never contact me anymore.
