when ur girl friend or ur boy friend leaves u

India
March 4, 2007 2:25am CST
my girl friend left me jan 6 2007 . I left everything for her my job,my ambition,i was drinking , i was smoking , i was eating non veg, i left those things for her atlast she left me i don t know why she said iam getting angry always because i was possesieve on her she don t like that .
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• India
4 Mar 07
Girls are always like that man... and the world says that men are not faithful. This incident happened to me on April 29 2003. The difference was that before she could leave me, I left her. One more question, I can revive you and your soul, Are you christian?? †Jesus Loves You† He loves you more than your girlfriend. He has loved me since my girl left me. It was hard for me to take that shock. Jesus led me out of that nervousness. He found a new best friend for me. He guided my way for a vacation bible school in church.There I learnt about his love for me. NOW, §Serious hacker lives for christ§
• India
4 Mar 07
thank u man yeah its true i talk with jesus always i think he talked to me again today in my lot through someone i think u understand what i say thank u can i know ur name ........
@earth2jacq (1502)
• Philippines
7 Mar 07
Just because we are in a relationship means you can control the other person. It is good that you still leave your other half room/space where she can do things for herself. And when one is in a relationship, do not change for the person but instead change for yourself. It is good that you quit smoking and now you are eating healthier...appreciate that because apart from letting go of bad habits, you acquired better ones but please do find a job so that the pain your are feeling from your broken heart will be directed to a good energy (your job).Broken hearts heal faster if you don't dwell on it. Perhaps one day she will come back or perhaps you will find someone better. Maybe she just came into your life to teach you lessons on handling relationships.
@Mollyjo (266)
• United States
4 Mar 07
If someone really loves you. You don't have to change who you are! Yes there are some things that need to be compromised on but, you shouldn't of had to go to the extreme of quitting your job over it. Sounds like she was the one who was possessive and not you. I know what it is like to be trapped in such a relationship. No matter what you do or how much you change you will never make them happy! You will waist so many years of your life trying to please them and make them happy. She really is unhappy with herself and she won't realize that until she finds it out on her own. I guarentee she will have the same problems with her next relationship. Now if you start to see similar problems in your next relationship them this will tell you where your weaknesses are so that you can work on fixing your troubles of your self!
@girishk87 (188)
• India
4 Mar 07
hi mathewamanoj(2) this is girishk87(53) my girl friend does not leave me because i don't have the girl friends i am happy because i had no girl friend ok don't worry bye.........
• India
4 Mar 07
well dont worry dear... she wasnt meant for you... if she was,then she wouldnt have left you! apparantly something was more important than you and so i dont see why you should be so sad... if she doesnt want you,then why the hell should u want her? look for some better fish in sea! you would meet the gal for you soon and by then all this would seem like a bad dream! so cheer up! its not the end of the world!