Am I wrong in the way I look at love?

nope.... i totally agree... there is no such thing as love at first sight! if anything happens at first site, it is not love, it would be lust or physical attraction! love happens after knowing the person and u love him/her not only for their good qualities,but also for their shortcomings!

I believe that love is hard work. But I know that the first time I saw my husband, I knew that I would give my heart away to him. There was just something about him that made me believe that we would grow old together. I also know that my daughter has told me that the first time she saw her fiancee, that he took her breath away, and she had to run in the other room to keep from crying. Was it love at first sight? I don't know because it was almost 3 years before they finally became a "Couple". They were best friends before that.

all i know is that love isn't that easy to have. we wait for love to come for years in our lives. then, we don't take it forgranted. we work hard to keep the relationship going. we invest time, effort, feelings and even a little money on it. it's not just there to keep us happy but it's there for us to make someone happy, too. it's always better if two people inlove work hard to keep the love alive forever. therefore, we will surely cherish it and take care of it since we know we value love so much. i agree with you and nope. you aren't wrong in the way you look at love.

yes, you're right.. love just dont happens.. or should i say we just don't see that we're working for it. we think it very simple. when you love, YOU DO THINGS YOU DONT USUALLY DO, AND YOU FIGHT FOR IT RIGHT?