Does this bother anyone else?

@twils2 (1812)
United States
March 4, 2007 12:53pm CST
Yesterday me and my wife were grocery shopping and when we were done I was trying to back out of my parking spot, there was this car just sitting there waitng at least 5 minutes for a spot and blocking me in my spot. To me it seems stupid( or at least really lazy) to sit and wait for a spot thats 3 or 4 spots closer to the door than where theres a bunch open spots. I mean gee, are people that afraid of a little exercize nowadays. Okay, thats it for my rant, sorry, just venting
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58 responses
• United States
4 Mar 07
I think this is hilarious. You want to hear another funny? I was loading my car with groceries when a car pulled into the space in front of me. They sat there for 5 minutes without getting out of the car. They just stared at me. Well, I took my time unloading the groceries. When I got into the car, I took even longer. The people still sat in their car and stared at me. I backed out of the space and as I did, they pulled forward into the space I exited. Weirdos. The only time I don't like to park further away from the store doors is when it is pouring outside. I do always bring an umbrella, but it isn't fun to run through the pouring rain, dodging puddles and getting soaked. But, I do it. There are other people out there that can't walk as fast as I can.
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@twils2 (1812)
• United States
5 Mar 07
Thank you, I do the same kind of thing when I see someone waiting for my spot, She was waiting for a spot a few spots down and was right behind my truck. The car wouldnt move until the other spot was open. :)
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@JoyfulOne (6232)
• United States
4 Mar 07
It used to bother me at one time in my life, when I was an able-bodied person and couldn't understand why people were so lazy. Then too, at one point I began to hover waiting for a closer space, but never blocking anybody from getting out though because I paid attention. I did that because I could not walk so much, and I did it right up until the Dr gave me a handicap parking placqard to hang in the window of my car. If you could look at it from a different point of view for a minute, you'd see that not everybody is lazy. I look like an able-bodied person who should be able to hike into the store, but for me, you cannot see the problems in my legs as they are not visible without an x-ray. When somebody does this, they may be saving their energy because they have physical problems that are not apparent to you. Please give them the benefit of the doubt and not assume they're lazy or rude...maybe they don't have a choice in it (I know I didn't:-)
• United States
5 Mar 07
Thank you, I have MS, and am not able to walk very far. It takes every ounce of energy some days for me to even walk. I do the best I can. I can't stand it when I see someone looking at me, without first thinking it through before judging to the conlusion, that I am disgusting for parking in a handicap, when I look "so able". You have to be careful before judging because they just may find themselves one day in the same situation.
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@twils2 (1812)
• United States
5 Mar 07
Thank you for your comments, the young lady in question appeard to be well abled to me
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@Melizzy (1381)
• United States
4 Mar 07
On the surface I agree with you. However, have you considered that they may have an ailment and those 3-4 spaces may actually make a difference? Or, as is often the case with me, Ithey have a placard for handicapped parking, but there are no handicapped spaces available? And of course, they could just be lazy.
@twils2 (1812)
• United States
5 Mar 07
Thank you, if they had an ailment and a handicapped plaque, she should of backed up so she could have my spot. I really dont think this is the case as I was in a handicapped spot due to my wifes arthritus. :)
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@callarse1 (4783)
• United States
4 Mar 07
I pretty much agree with you about being lazy, some people just are. However I know some people have problems with their bodies so they need to park close because they seem to have a hard time walking far. However, I agree with you I pretty much don't care if I get a close spot, but I understand that my grandfather has breathing problems so he cannot breathe well, so he wants to get a closer spot. Have a nice day. Pablo
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@twils2 (1812)
• United States
5 Mar 07
Thank you, my wife has arthritus in her knees so we have a handicap plaque that hangs from the mirror and its suprising that we can hardly ever get a handicap spot. I really doubt this person had any real handicap
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• United States
4 Mar 07
It does happen to me a lot but I refuse to get annoyed over it. I do however, take my time packing my car and properly dispose of my shopping cart before slowly backing up and waving goodbye. People are in too much of a hurry these days!
@twils2 (1812)
• United States
5 Mar 07
Thank you, that might of worked, but the car behind me was waiting for another car a few spaces down and wouldnt move so that I could leave. :)
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• United States
4 Mar 07
Yes, this bothers me too. It is just typical of our society. We have grown lazy, and want everything to be easy. This is also why everyone is fatter these days. I've started actually parking at the furthest parking place just to get more exercise.
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@twils2 (1812)
• United States
5 Mar 07
Thank you, I agree whole heartedlly. Nobody seems to care for anybody but themselves. They're even taught in schools that theres no such thing as being wrong so nothing anyone does is wrong anymore(but thats a whole other subject)
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@caramello (4377)
• Australia
4 Mar 07
If I have been in a situation like yours and they are not prepared to let me out I usually put the car in reverse so as they see the reverse lights first, then slowly move out and when they see I am coming closer, they certainly move! lol Although my judgement to date has been pretty good I would hate to think that one day they won't move!
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@twils2 (1812)
• United States
5 Mar 07
Thank you, I started to do just that and she yelled out her window "you have to stop" and I just said well move. She didnt move and then my wife started yelling at me to just wait. She really gets embarrased whenever I start to make a seen.
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• United States
4 Mar 07
Wow I was just thinking about that last night. Yeah I kind of dislike it when people do that ... but I geuss that is what America is ... Lazy and ignorent people.
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• United States
4 Mar 07
Not everyone in America is ignorant and/or lazy. I have heard about this same thing happening elsewhere to. Seriously get to know more people before attacking everyone in a certain country.
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@twils2 (1812)
• United States
5 Mar 07
Well, your Mylot page says your in America so I guess your lazy and ignorent too. From what I have seen about a quarter of the responses are from other countries, so its not just Americans
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• Canada
4 Mar 07
I would have to agree that this is really frustrating , do they honestly thing the extra couple of steps they have to take are going to hurt them somehow . I was trying to park at work the other day and someone took the spot I always take so I went around the loop to find another spot to park and when I came round she was still blocking all the space so I went in through another way and decided to park in front of her at which at the same time some one else was having the same problem with finding a place to park because she was blocking all of us off so I went in front and the other guy went in and blocked her in the middle . She got really mad and started honking on her horn but maybe next time she will not try and take every parking spot there is with trying to park her car . That's my rand lol .
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@twils2 (1812)
• United States
5 Mar 07
Thank you, good for you, I've done this a few times, but it doesnt always work. :)
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@crickethear (1417)
• United States
5 Mar 07
Maybe they have a handicap, and couldn't find one. I have MS, and have done that when all of the handicap are taken. It could have been they just had a disability.
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• United States
5 Mar 07
However, regardless, when they saw you trying to get out, they shouldn't have been blocking you from getting out.
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@twils2 (1812)
• United States
6 Mar 07
Thank you, if that was the case, then they could have let me out and had my spot.
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4 Mar 07
Its the signs of the times, in the super market parks, able bodied people park in disability bays,punks with no kids park in those allocated spaces,theres no respect for others,if you say anything you end up with a mouthful.Its the way we live.
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• United States
5 Mar 07
Unfortunately there are people with handicaps who may look normal. I have MS, and so far, am still able to walk, barely. However, someone looking at me, probably are thinking why is "she parking there?" Just because someone looks able bodied doesn't mean they are. I have a friend who is 42 has had 3 heart attacks, and has a handicap parking place, looking at her people think the same thing. She has been verbally attacked. So before you go judging, count your blessings.
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@twils2 (1812)
• United States
5 Mar 07
Thank you, I agree that its a sign of the times. Nobody cares for anyone but themselves. The person was not waiting for a handicaped spot, just a spot that was about three spots closer than the spot I was in and was blocking me from getting out. I understand that some disabilaties arent as visable as others but I really doubt that the young lady was disabled. Just lazy. :)
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@anonymili (3138)
4 Mar 07
See that would really annoy the heck out of me and I would have beeped the other car to move or got out of my car and tell them to have some common courtesy to let me out of the space and not block it in. Why is it that when people enter a supermarket car park they lose all common sense? Another thing that drives me mad is when you're about to back out of your parking space and some idiot just pushes their trolley out in front of your space and you have to get out to move it! How stupid is that? Huh heard of road rage? I get supermarket car park rage! LOL Ok my rant over too now :)
@twils2 (1812)
• United States
5 Mar 07
Thank you, when she saw me trying to back out she rolled down her window and started to yell at me that I have to stop, I just hollered back to move, but I try not to make to much of a seen because it really embarrases my wife when I do such things.
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@mrbranan (1012)
• United States
4 Mar 07
It bothers me more than I can say. It seems like a waste of time for someone to sit there that long when they could have been in the store already shopping before they get the parking space they are waiting on. It realy makes me mad when they are blocking me from going down the isle.
@twils2 (1812)
• United States
5 Mar 07
Thank you, I agree with you, it is a waste of time, you see it all of the time, someone waiting for a spot while somebody else drives around them and parks and then walks right by them, kind of stupid if you ask me.
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• United States
5 Mar 07
I agree some people are lazy but some do have disabilities and need to be closer to the store!
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@twils2 (1812)
• United States
6 Mar 07
Thank you, I agree, some do have disabilaties but if she was looking for a handicapped spot she could have let me out and had mine. My wife has arthritus and we have a plaque for handicapped parking.
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@7nicole1 (1633)
• Canada
5 Mar 07
Yes I have had this happen and hate it as well. People are getting lazy.
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@twils2 (1812)
• United States
6 Mar 07
Thank you, I agree.
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@chertsy (3798)
• United States
5 Mar 07
That has happened to me. I got so tired of it, that I laid on my horn til the car moved. I was in a hurry to get home, I can't sit and let frozen foods melt in the hot sun so someone could sit and wait for a stupid spot, if they only backed up I could have gave them mine. Only time I part far from the store is when I'm getting gas at there station or if I go by myself and don't have my kids with me. Walking won't kill you, plus when I get gas, I can spot an opening. 5 minutes is to long for me, maybe 1 and I'm letting them know to get the heck out of my way. I will use the horn only if my kids are there, and other things along with the horn if I'm alone.
@twils2 (1812)
• United States
6 Mar 07
Thank you, I would have done the same thing but when I'm out with my wife she throws a fit when I start making a big deal about such things.
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• Philippines
5 Mar 07
Well yeah that is a bother if that happened to me and I am just wondering isn't there any security for the grocery to stop this kind of double parking? In our country in every stores there are security guards who checks this kind of stuffs.
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@twils2 (1812)
• United States
6 Mar 07
thank you for your response, no, most grocery store parking lots dont have any kind of security, at least not around here. Just the occasional police officer driveing thru.
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@catcai (1056)
• Philippines
5 Mar 07
Its ok, just let it all out =) we experience it too back here. And from observing, the usual reasons why some people do this is because: 1. if they have an elderly, disabled on board, or anyone that can't really walk that far- for easy ambulation. 2. if they are to buy something very very big... like a refrigerator or something... 3. if they just bought their car and is too scared to to have it carnapped.. so far these are just based from my observation, otherwise, i agree with you on the lazy part.. haha... happy postings!
@twils2 (1812)
• United States
6 Mar 07
Thank you, I agree that there are times when someone needs those spots, but nine times out of ten, they are just lazy.
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@akopoto (177)
• Philippines
5 Mar 07
What a lazy person. I think people nowadays tend to become lazier than ever. With the breakthroughs in technology, people's lifestyle has been changing. I know we should take advantage of it but let's not be to stupid in using it. Why would you wait for that parking slot (lame!) if you can actually park to another spot and walk. It only proves that we choose the easier way even though it looks really stupid.
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@twils2 (1812)
• United States
6 Mar 07
Thank you, I agree, personally, I would rather just walk from the far side of the lot. I dont have the patience to sit and wait for a spot.
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@tinacaps (66)
• Philippines
5 Mar 07
Yeah, I think its stupid too. Specially, if you don't have some kind of a handicap requiring you to park on a spot closest to the door. Some people nowadays are just lazy. And the excuse for being in a rush should not be considered, if you could wait for 3 or more minutes to get a spot closest to the door, I think you could walk three to two minutes. And besides its good for your health.
@twils2 (1812)
• United States
6 Mar 07
Thank you, I agree, and if you look, those are usually the one that could use the exersize the most.
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