To All Men and Woman out there

United States
March 4, 2007 10:44pm CST
When you meet someone for the first time and you know for a faint second you will be with them for the rest of your life? I did or at least I thought I did. The guy I met was everything I wanted in a man but once we got married I mean everything was good for the first month but after that month we grew farther apart. I mean he abused me and I know it was all my fault that he hit me and threw me down the steps and made me lose our unborn child. But is it really ok for someone to cheat and treat the other with the ut most hate in the world? Tell me that? I did everything for this guy and what do i get? Nothing. No love no happy birthday no nothing. What I am trying to say is after all this time after 2 years he wants a divorce cause I never treated him with respect or showed him love(wich I did every min even after I got rapped). What should I do and how should I move on? I mean he still stalks me and there is nothing the state or I can do. Please tell me or lead me to the right path so that after 2 years I can be happy again
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@SKLC_PT (1234)
5 Mar 07
There is NOTHING and I must really say NOTHING any person can do to deserve being beaten, kicked, hit, pushed down stairs, no aggression is truly deserved, we are not primitive cave people anymore. You really should try seeing about local support for abuse victims, they should be able to help you, try getting a (can't remember the name), it's a paper that states he can not be less then so many yards from you. If he hurts you report him to the police immediately. Here's just one of the many sites you can check out http://www.ojp.usdoj.gov/ovc/help/dv.htm try googling "domestic abuse help"
• United States
5 Mar 07
I have done everything from going to get help at SARC to get a peace order. NOthing stops him and the cops here know him well so they wont do nothing to him. So I am SOL and I must leave it in gods hands
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@SKLC_PT (1234)
5 Mar 07
You should keep trying, try other associations, the site I gave had several, you should find at least one to help you. I can't really help that much as I'm in Portugal and am not sure on the recourses there and how things work.
• United States
5 Mar 07
Its ok and I thank you for the support. Means alot to me that at least someone out there cares
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