The loss of a pregnancy

It was january when I had a miscarriage.Right now it still feels like Ill never get over it.It wouldnt be so bad if I wasnt still getting things from medicaid that say to the child of.Or the people who I havent seen that suddenly pop up and ask about it.Its like have common sense to see that im not showing and dont ask about it.Im little by little getting more able to move on.I dont feel like the pain will ever go away.And sometimes I still feel like god hates me.Ive not been trying but we havent been using birth control either.I still havent had any luck but then again I dont know what I would do if the same result came once again.

in march of 2006 i miscarried the first twin...a month later i miscarried the second twin we believed to be healthy. this past april is was one year it was still so hard on me and my fiance. i might not have been very far along but it still made me feel completely empty and like i didn't deserve to even eat anymore cause it wasn't for my babies. my fiance and i tried again and fortunately it only took 3 months to concieve. and two months ago on march 20th my daughter was born. i am a firm believer in everything happens for a reason. there was a reason we were not supposed to have our twins. but we were supposed to have our little girl. the pain will never completely go away but it will ease. and if you are meant to concieve again it will definately happen. and i'm sure it will give it time. when the time is right and when you least expect it that is when all great things happen. i wish you the best of luck.

It took me a long time to get over my miscarriage.. I was so excited to have a baby.. I lost mine very early on in pregnancy but it was still very devastating for me.. it took well over a year for me to quit glaring at pregnant women and women with new babies it seemed so unfair to me.. When I finally decided maybe i really wasn't ready to have kids yet wam I got pregnant I know have three kids and I still think about the baby i lost but everything is for reason I believe and maybe there would have been problems with the first child that I would have been able to deal with??? Keep your chin up it will happen sometimes I think if you try to hard it stresses you out and its harder to conceive..with my second we tried for over a year to get pregnant and my third I got pregnant two months after delivering my second .. good luck keep us posted.. take care