How do you fight obsession? Help me..
By ritchel
@ritchel (842)
Philippines
March 5, 2007 10:10am CST
I don't know why i do these things:
1. I texted him all the times but he never reply to my text messages.
2. I type his name over and over in the different engines just to know what has been happening in his life.
3. I always visit every site where there is his name.
4. He is not good looking but i don't know why i am enamored with him.
5. He ignores me but i am still hoping that he will have a feelings for me.
6. I always think of him, dream of him and always remembers him.
I am so stupid. I don't know how will i handle this kind of obsession. I don't know what is in this guy that i am this crazy.
4 responses
@Bev1986 (1425)
• United States
5 Mar 07
Are you friends with him? Do you actually carry on conversations with him?
If I were you, I would cut out the texting....he is probably annoyed that you are doing that. Try to ignore him and if he's interested, he'll come around to you.
I used to have a crush on a guy in high school (many moons ago!) and he was friends with one of my friends, but he never actually talked to me. I fantasized about him all the time, but he didn't know I was alive! Finally, I just started saying hi when I saw him.... but I didn't bother him.. just said hi. Finally, he started talking to me.
But guess what? After I got to know him, he wasn't nearly as great as what I thought he was! lol! I found someone knew who was interested in me....
@ritchel (842)
• Philippines
5 Mar 07
I don't know how will i categorized it because we were never really introduced to each other but there were times that we talk in some circumstances. I really fantasize him all the time and he knows that i got a crush with him. He is in position compared to me who is only a student. I still don't know what his attitude but the first time i saw him, my hearts beats faster and until now...that it turn out that i become obsessed with him. Those i have mentioned in my post where the crazy things that i do.
@MGjhaud (23237)
• Philippines
29 Sep 07
Hehe.. I do that sometimes. Well that’s ok as long as you’re ready to know all about him – just in case you’ll find something about him one the internet – but be prepared when you’ll know something unexpected like he’s not single anymore or you’ll find pictures of him with someone else that looks like they’re so in love. It happen to me before, I was keeping track of what he’s doing through visiting his webpage and I found out one day that he already has a girlfriend. That really shocked me and it took me sometime to get over with that news. From then I seriously forced myself not to open it again which I am successful of doing.
@mizcheekz (178)
• United States
5 Mar 07
Sounds like the classic, he's unavailable and so it makes you want him more. Really doesn't matter if he's good looking or if he responds or not. He's unavailable for whatever reason and so now it's like a game that you want to win. However, it is soooo not healthy for you. You have to take it one day at a time. Maybe first start off with not texting him. Try just giving at least that much up first. Then when you've mastered that, try giving up searching for him on the internet. Slowly, little by little, your mind will free you from him as well and you won't dream of him all the time either. (since that's not one you can just say okay I won't do it) But seriously, I'd start with doing everything in your power not to text him. In fact, your last text to him might say something like "I'm sorry about all of the text messages, I'm going to try to move on." And then that's it, no more! Give it a shot and let us know how you do.
@ritchel (842)
• Philippines
5 Mar 07
He is still single. I did text him before about asking for my forgiveness that i would no longer forward him text messages but after a few months, i am doing the same thing. Sometimes i pity myself of the fact that i am leveling down myself, doing things that a woman shouldn't do. He ignores me but still i continue texting him.
