PDA Does it bother you?How do you react to it?
By raydene
@raydene (9871)
United States
March 5, 2007 8:42pm CST
Public display of affection.I was going into Walmart the other day in the late afternoon just before dark.As I passed this van with untinted windows I realized it was moving.I glanced over and there was a guy in the front passenger seat with the seat tilted back and he was moaning and moving around.I thought he having a good time by himself .I was about to turn away when he spotted me and at about the same time a very young girl popped her head up from between his legs.I turned and ran inside.The girl looked really young,should I have said something?
I was so embarrassed,but then I thought why should I be embarrassed when I wasn't the one doing something questionable.
Were they breaking the law?
What would you have done?
Would you be embarrassed?
How many people would have said something?
Raydene
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6 responses
@rndistgg (109)
• United States
6 Mar 07
Yes that is against the law. Not only is it indecent exposure but I've heard it's against the law to perform fellacio here in Texas (or something like that... so dont get all defensive and trying to challenge me you guys). I probably would have ignored it and walked away or went on with my business but it wouldn't be wrong to call in a complaint to the police. They probably wouldn't have done anything about it anyway though. I would probably be embarrassed for them since they got caught but then again they weren't exactly trying to be discreet.
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@ironstruck (2298)
• Canada
6 Mar 07
I don't know why, but it has always bothered me to see people over doing it in public.
I don't mean holding hands or having your arms around each others waist.
I'm talking about the heavy kissing in broad daylight on a busy sidewalk.
I just can't see where that is even remotely romantic. As far as what you saw........I mean, there are a dozen other places they could have gone and been much less conspicuous.
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@linda345 (2660)
• Canada
7 Mar 07
I don't think you should of ran inside or have been embarrased. It was the couple that was ones who should of embarrassed. I wrote a dissussion a few weeks back a bought two couples at bingo all over each other. I don't mean a little kiss and good luck. It was discusting. I wanted to say something but I thing them making a fool of themselves in the hall was enough.
@iampabols (93)
• Philippines
6 Mar 07
well, if i were the lawmaker, i would not let pda a violation to law and morals......let the person show his feeling, it is their right....why bother to criticize such pda persons? that is human nature as animals so why stopped them to show affection with the others....oh no, be practical!
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@limosonia1 (1559)
• United States
6 Mar 07
WOW. I don't mind PDA like hand holding or kissing. That goes far beyond public affection. Why couldn't they just find an empty parking lot instead of a parking lot in the middle of walmart. That's just crazy. I think if she was to young they wouldn't be in the parking lot but who knows. I don't think that I would have said anything either. It is just crazy and embarasing.
@tatzkie (644)
• Philippines
6 Mar 07
hahaha... i have one experience almost like that.
to be blunt about it, i dont think it should embarrass us at all. they should be the one. doing those private thingie in public is ideally shameful to the doer.
ironically, im also PDA but not the worst kind. Me and my gf kiss lovingly in public and we are not ashamed. coz we know we are inlove and we brag it to everyone.
