What makes a man a REAL MAN?

@jengrin (944)
Philippines
March 5, 2007 9:23pm CST
Each one of us has it's own meaning of a real man. But what is really a real man? Any better and nice idea? please share your own ideas....
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@jbrooks0127 (2324)
• United States
6 Mar 07
As you say we each have our own definition of what a real man is. We all know what makes a man a man. With that appendage he is aoutomaticly clasified as man. However what is a real man. My definition: 1): A real man takes responsiblity for his own action. 2): Is dependable and hard working. 3): He treats all women with respect but demands they do the same with him. 4): When he falls in love with a woman he will be totally devoted to her and want to have a family with her. 5): Would be highly protective of his family and would galdly die to protect them. 6): He respects other people but insures that they treat him farely. 7): Above all he does no harm except in self defence.
@NancyLobo (680)
• India
6 Mar 07
I think a man must be strong and willing to take responsibility of his family he should be loving and considerate just because he is strong and holds a good position in society he should not be proud and arrogant he should be gentle and kind then he will be respected for this behavior not just dominating and demanding all the time.
@jengrin (944)
• Philippines
6 Mar 07
thank you for sharing your idea. I think you are a responsible father, a good husband and a real man!!!
• India
7 Mar 07
I'm a lady, I have given my views about How a real man should be.
@cuhkiz (568)
• Philippines
6 Mar 07
for me i saw a man real man not of his muscles who makes him look strong and tough. Not all men are tough, not all are strong, not all are really feeling manly on themselves but im really proud to know men who know how to face their fears, who knows how to gradually respect a lady or any other person in their environment. Its not just because your a man, you have to be dominant and ruleing. A real man should know how to admit responsibilities and obligations.
@jengrin (944)
• Philippines
6 Mar 07
What if he looks strong and manly but cannot face his fears?
• Philippines
6 Mar 07
When he is man enough to accept his mistakes, admits his faults and does what he needs to do to make it right...
@knight06 (43)
• Philippines
29 Apr 07
I believe a real man is someone who can stand up on his own.A man who is independent and can do his own decision.Also,a real man for me is someone with good principles in life.
@smileydew (171)
• India
30 Apr 07
HAI FRIEND IAM SRINU FROM INDIA,NICE TO MEET YOU,a man is a real man,he must be good in all respects and he must be in ideal qulities and helpfull to others,the way is like this,coming to physical with perfect figure with out any extrapadding,as a father he must care and teaching good qualities to his childern and satsfies all thier good needs,coming to hiw wife she must be a romeo and he feels his wife as juliet,all other ladies as his own sisters,for his parents he must care them as kids and serve them,feelings as god and godess,then he never fight with any one,but for scoiety sake he must be the leader too,and society problems etc,poosible he must help others with his money limits,treating the socirty as his friends and love them as friends,try to make the scoiety as good natured people,his actions makes the sscoeity good as well his family and he must be intelligent too.for planning and implementing,and all good habits and needed habits he must know well versed,he can do his onthings then looking for others to help him if he is able to do it,simply never a lazy person
• United States
6 Mar 07
A real man is sensitive to the needs of others, and very understanding to the plight of women. This is not very common among men, so this is perhaps so idealistic. I say this because sensitivity could even get to the point of actually shedding tears. Unmanly? Nope. That's the real deal, the real man.