Do you think love gives so much pain?

@jigishap (595)
India
March 5, 2007 10:49pm CST
I fell sometimes that there is pain in love what about you?
3 people like this
13 responses
@carlysle (271)
• Philippines
6 Mar 07
there was a time that i felt hurt because of falling for someone who was wrong for me.. but i neve really blamed love for it... coz the way i saw it.. it was not loves fall that i was hurting.. it was my stupidity that hurt me.. then love really is a good thing... it can never be a bad thing.. its the person that is imperfect... not love..
@jigishap (595)
• India
6 Mar 07
Yes you read my mind I also think the same Thanks for replying me dear
@carlysle (271)
• Philippines
6 Mar 07
i meant it was not loves fault.. not fall.. sorry..
• United States
6 Mar 07
Yes, some of the greatest of lifes loves can be very painful. I sometimes feel that it mold the strong and makes you stronger to endure yet not compromise your sense of self worth. Shakespeare once markedly quoted, " Tis better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all."
• Philippines
6 Mar 07
that's true. and when it hurts, you know it's real. so sometimes, i think we ought to be thankful to feel pain occasionally.
@jigishap (595)
• India
6 Mar 07
Well said powerintention, thanks for replying
@sikabayan (144)
• Indonesia
6 Mar 07
right...u just right my friends
@jigishap (595)
• India
6 Mar 07
By seeing your answer I felt that u also feel so much pain
@rockky (186)
• India
6 Mar 07
hey jigi!!! i dunno if love is pain but one thing i could say after seeing ma friends so depress in love!! love plays n important role in pain....
@jigishap (595)
• India
6 Mar 07
ye rockky your r right. Thanks for replying me and calling me jigi :) my old friends are used to say me jigi
@charms88 (7538)
• Philippines
6 Mar 07
I'm afraid its true jigishap. I think nobody will not ever feel any pain at all when it comes to love. Not unless you don't have any heart at all. The first time I felt it, it was like a knife stabbing on my heart. I can't understand what I'm feeling. One minute I'm crying, another minute, I have this dazed look in my eyes. I remember wishing that I can open up my chest, lift up my heart and let it healed for a year. The thing is, in any pain that you felt, the stronger you will turn out to be. There is a saying, "It is better to be loved then never be loved at all." It means that no matter how painful love can be, it also gave you the chance to experience what love is really all about. Be strong, my friend. + rating for your discussion here.
@jigishap (595)
• India
6 Mar 07
Hi dear thanks for replying me. You are absolutely right when ever there is love there is pain..
• United States
6 Mar 07
Right now at this point in my life i hate the word love.To me love should be called lies or deception.But i know i feel like this because i loved the wrong person.Love really does hurt emotionally and physically.There should be a cure for love like a piull you can take or something...THAT WOULD BE GREAT!!!
@yumoney (194)
• China
6 Mar 07
different with you,i love the word love,it's perfect! i love my gril friend and she love me too,we love with each other,i hope we can spend all our time together,and be happy every day! i think i loved the right person not a wrong person.
@jigishap (595)
• India
6 Mar 07
I am agree with you both some times it happens with all,some times we feel like love is really painful .But its not love its person
@sarah22 (3979)
• United States
6 Mar 07
yes
@chardyme (1631)
• Philippines
6 Mar 07
yes there is pain in love. love isnt always being happy but also getting hurt sometimes
@babyjane (1390)
• Philippines
6 Mar 07
In the world there is always a person waiting for another, it could be in the middle of the desert or in the middle of the city . And when these two people find each other and there eyes connect,the pased and the future loose completly there importance and there only exist that moment.
@cheerldr (594)
• Philippines
6 Mar 07
Of course, love gives us pain. But the more pain we experience, the more we understand love. I believe that when there is no pain, there is no love.
@jmvora (98)
• India
6 Mar 07
Hi jigiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii, what ever pain we get from the loved ones is not the real pain but is a part of love shared by each of them. (what i think) after all pyaar ka dard to mitha hi hota hai na.
• India
6 Mar 07
I think that love is blind and it can do anything and hurt anybody.
• Romania
6 Mar 07
Yes it does, but not only pain it gives an important lesson too. Love is like a fire if you pay attention and take good care of it it will become the candle of your heart and the warm sun of your soul. If you disrespect it or you aren't paying any attention and care than it can burn you badly.