guys doing what the girls do?

@fianne (1059)
United States
March 6, 2007 3:03am CST
well, have you seen guys holding each other's hands like what girls are doing? if yes, do you think they are gay? if nope, why do you think not? hmmm. interesting, right?
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@sherinek (3323)
• United States
6 Mar 07
Boys are to be rough girls are to be tender. Holding hands is a cute gesture and boys are not supposed to be cute! Plus most boys hate to look cute cos its not "cool". This is all made up things and i personally would also feel that if two boys walk holding hands, that is not as sweet as two girls holding hands. It may be wrong, but that's what we are made to think.
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@fianne (1059)
• United States
6 Mar 07
yeah... thanks... is it always like that? people tend to think that when two guys hold each other's hands, they are gay?
@kakangmas (121)
• Indonesia
6 Mar 07
In my community, it happens but in a very low intensity, compare to what girls are doing. I know exactly they are not that kind. It just represents their close relation based on their social activities. In this case, the partner is not specific one, but anyone among the inner circle.
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• India
6 Mar 07
well i really do not feel if guys hold hans then they r gay...well in friendhip we often communicate with such body language and making a notion that it resembles gay then u r pretty wrong!!!just change ur perception a little bit and u will find this life beautiful...
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@mansha (6301)
• India
7 Mar 07
I never looked at this way as I always thought it was just a comfortable level f friendship that they have , even girls hold each other's hands but it does not mean that they are lesbians too. may be fromnow on I will be concious enough to think in that way -after reading yur discussion.
@magnel (2263)
• India
7 Mar 07
I not seen such a thing yet...
@perugu (5281)
• India
6 Mar 07
hi,friend its interesting.We can consider that sometimes it may be because of habit also...that much i can say.