Will you allow your wife to have boy friends after marriage?

@muntaha (376)
Bangladesh
March 6, 2007 7:32am CST
I am having some difficulties. My husband don't like my boy friends. What should i do and what is your opinion?
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@ompower (65)
• India
24 Mar 07
Both men and women are possesive about people whom they love. So the main point is that your husband loves you. Dont you think that there should be some effort from your side to make the marriage work. Some 25 -30 years down the line you will realize that the only real friends you have are your family. If you are in need ( hope it never happens), just see how all the friends vanish. Your comments please.
• United States
22 Mar 07
well i think he is being traditional but more than that is he might be insecure about himself with you. i mean anyone would be since you are so beautiful and he might be afraid that you might attract good looking men than him , or he might be insecure he is in love making with you nad that will drive in crazy. But sit down and make him understand that htey are your old friends and if he still does not listen the last option is that if the friends are really nice and if you have know them for years then welll sounds stupid but make them your brothers ;-)
@mariner68 (1276)
• India
6 Mar 07
i dont mind my wife from having boy friends as long as they know their limits and don't try to betray me.
• India
7 Mar 07
Yes. I'll allow my wife to have boy friends. Becoz I am looking for girl friends na. I should not restrict her to have boy friends.
@ompower (65)
• India
6 Mar 07
A lot will depend on whether they are boys who are friends or 'boyfriends'. As a husband I would not tolerate boyfriends, I may even get violent. You will certainly have to get rid of the 'boyfriends' if any. Very soon he may start having 'girlfriends' and then the shoe will be on the other foot.