how do you feel when you fight with ur husband?
By shafinazatul
@shafinazatul (74)
Malaysia
March 6, 2007 8:03am CST
hello all,
i just want to share. I hve been married for 4 years now. i love him ..really. before we were married, i thought he is the most kind man of all. then ,now there is something about him that is different. He never yell at me before..lately..we always fight on something small..like who s going to wash the dishes after meals..when we fought, i feel like i want to leave him..i fell upsets,and sad. I was trying to find what went wrong.but i know.. we will survive together..i love him still..and so much. come on..share with me..anyone..
1 response
@lordwarwizard (35747)
• Singapore
6 Mar 07
Do you still love him?
I think this would be the most important question. For a marriage to be successfully maintained, love must be present.
If you still love him, remind him you do and talk it over with him patiently. Patiently alright.. no harsh words or loud voices.
If you do not still love him, then ask if he wants to salvage the relationship. If both of you feel the same - that there is no more love in the marriage anymore - perhaps a clean, polite ending would be for the best.
